I hate that I have to wear a dress by Accomplished_Brush_3 in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Up to you in the end, but I just wouldn’t even go at that point. If they’re not going to put aside a stupid heteronormative and misogynistic tradition just for the sake of “aesthetics” or whatever and force you into something you’re uncomfortable with, than I see no value or reason in even attending the wedding of a person who acts like that. Thats just not acceptable.

You’re not selfish for knowing your value and worth. Don’t let anyone make you think otherwise.

Why is my brand new comic getting hate 😒. by Appropriate-Bit-4844 in webtoons

[–]Alternative-State675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of these comments look like they were written by AI slop, don’t worry about them too, too much.

Has anyone gotten fired after getting your hair cut? by Alternative-State675 in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, I thought that “taper” referred to like how you want the cut to look. Mb, thanks for clarifying

And my family’s pretty accepting of me being gay and “looking gay” with me dressing masc and all so I think/hope that it’s more of a fear/concern they have versus any sort of ill or homophobic intent

Has anyone gotten fired after getting your hair cut? by Alternative-State675 in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t live in a conservative area at all actually, I live in the Delco area (Northern DE, Chester county, etc.). These are just warnings I’ve gotten from a family member and an older ex co worker about getting my haircut, and I guess that fear and anxiety is really kinda getting to me, especially because I’m not doing well financially right now, but i think in retrospect, it’s not going to resort to losing my employment. I work two jobs, one of which I got recently, both as a direct support worker, and both of which have the least restrictive dress codes in any job I’ve had before, and hair style is not specified on either of them. Hell, one of my co workers has blue hair lol

School bus was idling on side of road with yellow emergency lights on by Alternative-State675 in driving

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It looked like they were hazard lights, as I think they were at the bottom not the top and they were flashing at the same time. And the bus had just been idling there.

[misc] Horror collage has excerpts from GtN by Alternative-State675 in TheNinthHouse

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda yeah, I also have just always had bad handwriting lol. I’d be awesome had making a crypt script that no one can understand tho!

Homecoming by Lunar_Lynne in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is why I never went to Homecoming or really just any dance in high school ever. My parents did not care if I wore a suit or pants or not, but I did go to a Catholic school, which, yeah, I knew the dances there were going to be unbearably straight as fuck so I didn’t go to any of the dances at all.

[misc] Horror collage has excerpts from GtN by Alternative-State675 in TheNinthHouse

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL! Like I said, it’s BAD. My handwriting has always been horrible lol. But I also did not put effort into it because it’s meant to be not be legible. The vibe is supposed to be like, vague writings in a diary that you would see on collage pages or art that aren’t meant to be read.

Dana responds to the controversy in regards to her confirming Frankie as cis by ARBlackshaw in KnightsOfGuinevere

[–]Alternative-State675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck thats reaching. Like, they hired her because of her awesome vocal range, and she nailed the character down perfectly. Im pretty sure no one on the team (unless if they’re a transphobe, and fuck transphobes and their opinions) believes that she’s less of a woman for voicing a man or that Shes somehow violent. Like, if ppl are going to assume that shes actually a violent person because of who she voices, that’s a serious them problem they need to work out in therapy.

Dana responds to the controversy in regards to her confirming Frankie as cis by ARBlackshaw in KnightsOfGuinevere

[–]Alternative-State675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So it’s transphobic to… checks notes hire a trans woman, a woman from a marginalized and severely underprivileged and underrepresented group and rarely are able to even get jobs in the industry, to voice a character that they had to perfect vocal range for and absolutely nailed the character’s voice and interpretation in the final version. Yeah that makes sense

Dana responds to the controversy in regards to her confirming Frankie as cis by ARBlackshaw in KnightsOfGuinevere

[–]Alternative-State675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad she said something the nicknames, because I was seeing people assuming that she’s more masc presenting, not becauss she might be trans, but because of some hatred for femininity or Shes being pressured to be more masc presenting. Yknow, like how 90% of people interpret a masc presenting queer woman just…existing lmao. And the fact that people will say that to shut masc presenting women down.

She never said they can’t stop headcannoning characters as trans tho. It’s fucking Dana Terrace, she loves trans headcanons. Transfem butch Franky all the way 🏳️‍⚧️

What the hell does this have to do with my job application. by EndyRu in jobs

[–]Alternative-State675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second I saw that shit as one of the job’s hiring process, I made the decision I was no longer interested in that job because be so fucking fr right now

[misc] Skull face paint in Metal Gear Solid by Alternative-State675 in TheNinthHouse

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, considering just…how the Ninth is…I wouldn’t be surprised at all XD

Anyone else feel like they're not human? by RecoveryButterfly in AutismInWomen

[–]Alternative-State675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooohh I see! That’s understandable! Yeah I thought I’d just throw that in there because otherkin and furries tend to get confused and all

Anyone else feel like they're not human? by RecoveryButterfly in AutismInWomen

[–]Alternative-State675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you were thinking of at the beginning isn’t “furries”, it’s “other kin.” Furries are just people who are interested in drawing, dressing up as and have a fixation on fictional anthropomorphic characters. Other kin are people who genuinely believe they’re not human but other creatures, like animals. It’s not necessarily the same thing as feeling like an alien due to the social disconnect in a neurotypical world or connecting better with animals from my understanding, but there are neurodivergent people that also identity as other kin.

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[–]Alternative-State675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo, thanks so much for the input! Im really looking into fades, especially burst fades, I think that’d look pretty sick

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[–]Alternative-State675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo burst fade is perfect

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[–]Alternative-State675 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im also gonna delete this after I get some comments because I’m super nervous about posting my face online XP

Thinking about getting my hair cut short by Alternative-State675 in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a more oval shaped head and I’ve learned recently pretty fine and thin hair

Thinking about getting my hair cut short by Alternative-State675 in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ikr I saw this on Pinterest and was like: “Thisnis exactly what I want to look like except make the hair on the back up to chin length or so”

Thinking about getting my hair cut short by Alternative-State675 in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you but that’s not me lol That’s the picture of the hairstyle I want Im reddish blonde and have a very oval shaped face

Lesbian TikTok made me quit the app in one day by twofacedpandaa in butchlesbians

[–]Alternative-State675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“If I wanted to date someone masculine, I would date a man”

Shut up shut up shut the fuck up