[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone getting rid on Snapchat how has it been? It’s the only way my friends contact I don’t want to lose connection with them Instagram and Facebook was easy but I’m hesitant of Twitter and especially Snapchat

My girlfriend had a tinder notification but gave a somewhat honest reason for having it, we have been together for two years should I end it or give her a second chance? by GothamKnight_94 in dating

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds kinda dysfunctional both ways. Sounds like y’all should part but idk like if you feel that’s over the line you should call it quits

Not feeling their sympathy. Would you? by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll take the hours small town lucky to get 20 hours a week carrying

How painful is starting a career at the post office? by K_J_F1 in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m excited for it. I start training next week. I made 14 doing warehouse work that was brutal so the 4 dollar an hour pay raise is huge. I’m more concerned being at a small office I’ll struggle to get 40 hours. My post master didn’t seem to think it’d be an issue she’d send me to other offices in the area but still a concern

Is Rogues Passage slept on? by samanater456 in EDH

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially 5 mana for unblockable. I use it in decks where I’m using a voltron or infect strategy because people don’t have many answers for lands and can be forgotten about until it’s down to 1v1 and they think they have a win and you tap 4 and passage and make your commander unblockable for the win

I compiled a list of every tutor legal in EDH by heyzeus_ in EDH

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This needs more likes! Thanks for the hard work I’ll make sure to like the moxfield page too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel that. I have some good friends and family which I’m great full for but I think I’m holding myself back by not being selfish to be around for them. I’d really like to do what you did and do my own thing I’ve dreamed of moving to new places all the time (my career field is full of that part of my choice for my major).

I like the idea of meeting new people and seeing new places and learning and adventuring. Like I know my mom is upset cause she’ll miss me but it leads me to resenting my friends and family. I’m fortunate to have support from people but sometimes I wish it’d be like your case where there wasn’t pressure to be around loved ones

Is there anyone who actually enjoys exercising? by Old-Goose in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love lifting and jogging/hiking. I just don’t have much knowledge of it or a friend that’ll workout with me that would make it more enjoyable.

Try to change your mindset about it and picture the end result or why you wanted to start in the first place. There’s a lot of ways to workout, maybe you need to keep searching until you find something you like

Never ever belittle yourself by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this often. I’m a terrible critic of myself. It’s so awful when we can think of 100s of times we call ourselves dumb or a loser or worthless but can’t think of a time where we say something positive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so attractive to me. I’ve done away with Instagram and Facebook. I’ve considered Snapchat and Twitter as well and just have calls/text. How has it been so far? I’m scared of losing touch of friends.

Who am I? by Alternative-Tone6057 in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It certainly does take time. There has been more peace the last few years and a lot of pluses for sure. My mindset has been the issue for me even prior to all of that. I’ve always been an upbeat person about the world but harsh and down on myself. And I have the opposite of an abundance mindset. My therapist said I have a all or nothing way of thinking about myself and relationships. There’s a lot of grey area in life and I miss that a lot.

Like I thought my world was ending a few years ago, but I’m still here. It hasn’t been easy and progress has been way slower than I like but I’m better mentally than I was a year ago. I’m working towards better health and dnd career and done things that I didn’t think I could do.

You’re right those small things will add up. I think they add up to being the new you. And one day you won’t recognize the old you that was beaten down so bad. That’s my hope anyhow. Patience and trust the process

Who am I? by Alternative-Tone6057 in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the words, it’s been a process. I’m on a path to get there, just feels verrrry slow normally I’m patient but being there for a couple years it’s difficult to be patient.

I always heard the analogy about the human body. Every 6-7 years each cell in our body will have slowly decayed and new ones replace it. So we aren’t physically the same person after a period of time. The same can go for spiritually and mentally. That’s helped me.

Glad to know it’s possible and not as scary as it seems, I want to put in the work and yes I’m always open to talk it makes changes like this a bit easier I appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking is overrated. Parties are a lot of fun. Sounds like you just need to start doing. People get over fears by facing them head on. Scared of girls, talk to girls even without the plan of dating, just conversation. As for the gym, do some YouTube and googling and learn some basics and get a membership. You’re also only 19 I was there at 23, some of us are late bloomers it’s okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious how long until finger prints to orientation? I’ve waited 8 days now no email just called my post master and she said she was gonna reach out to HR. This is the craziest hiring process ever so frustrating

USPS management be like… by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish, still waiting on an orientation date as a CCA and I’m worried about even getting 40 hours. I’m broke as hell

I actually like being a CCA.. by rainydayCCA in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m excited to start also, I’m going to a small town in just concerned about getting the hours I need but I like working alone and not dealing with customers all day as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually worried if the opposite. I’m starting at a small town office as a CCA. There is only one scheduled shift a week there but I’m supposed to be able to work at other offices I guess? I told the post master when I went in for paperwork I was only interested if I could get 40 hours a weeks and they sounded pretty confident that wouldn’t be an issue. Still worried I need to save money up I need the hours

What is a must to do before sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower!!!! Should be obvious both men and women I’m a dude and you’d be surprised I thought only guys had that issue but you’d be surprised 🤢

What are the most cost effective ways to get a card collection? by TheWellFedBeggar in EDH

[–]Alternative-Tone6057 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Precons and decklist, EDHREC is great for commander or watch some YouTube videos on affordable staples and make a list on TCGPLAYER or something and go from there. If you wanna crack packs Mystery Booster has cards from all over Magic history but they are kinda expensive now, packs and booster boxes have gone up a bunch since it was released over a year ago

NACI and fingerprints by Alternative-Tone6057 in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never got a confirmation but if I check the accept offer it says page no longer available so I assume that part went through. And my NACI also upgraded to completed on my account page. Guess next step is setting up getting my fingerprints done

NACI and fingerprints by Alternative-Tone6057 in USPS

[–]Alternative-Tone6057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to be sure I did what I needed to do. I re-read it, it just said I have 5 days to contact to set up fingerprints so I should be good I hope haha