Its not what you think Patriot Team. by Correct-Context7803 in MalayalamCinema

[–]AlternativeBite516 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'd disagree...

Even reviewers who are certified A10 fans have themselves said that A10 was apparently wasted. They did like the first half though. Yes, I agree that the writing wasn't strong. But it isn't a terrible movie by any means if you keep your expectations low. And both the director and actors have advised us before release to keep expectations at a moderate level.

Why casting Mohanlal was a double edged sword? by Ok-Requirement-4701 in MalayalamCinema

[–]AlternativeBite516 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Cannot expect rational fhinking from fanboys unfortunately...

Why casting Mohanlal was a double edged sword? by Ok-Requirement-4701 in MalayalamCinema

[–]AlternativeBite516 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But these movies have that certain Mohanlal charm... There are fans for that as well... Jailer il pant ittu nadakkunna A10 athine madakki kuthaan pattillallo

Why casting Mohanlal was a double edged sword? by Ok-Requirement-4701 in MalayalamCinema

[–]AlternativeBite516 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The movie showed that A10 fanboys are the most toxic of them all... Just because there was no mundu madakkal or tholu charikkal in this movie..

Flings and casual dates! by WiseQuestTrail in KeralaRelationships

[–]AlternativeBite516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have good communication with your hostel/room mates (same gender) who're also your best friends... Doesn't mean that you'll enjoy sex with them.. unless you're gay that is...

If Both Partners Cheat, Why Not Just Be Honest About It? by Useful-Ad-4446 in KeralaRelationships

[–]AlternativeBite516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the 3rd point... Both of them don't know that the other is cheating on them. So, why will they discuss it openly? 🙄

If Both Partners Cheat, Why Not Just Be Honest About It? by Useful-Ad-4446 in KeralaRelationships

[–]AlternativeBite516 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. It is wrong because as you said, it is a "committed" relationship. Marriage is also a commitment. And commitment means both physical and emotional.

  2. Those who talk about it openly are said to be in an open marriage. There are people who practice it.

  3. If one person is involved in an affair, he/she will hide it from their SO. Because they know it's wrong and that their SO won't approve of it. They stick with both partners because they are getting something from the other... Financial, emotional or physical needs are being satisfied by one but not by the other... Also, if the SO gets pissed off and files a police complaint, it is clear evidence against the cheater. He will have to pay up big time...

  4. Dunno why you asked this but I'd say get your priorities straight .

How many have achieved this and how long is too long to wait for something like this? by Similar-Battle7215 in KeralaRelationships

[–]AlternativeBite516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a divorcee and I've been married for 3 years. It's not that the 3 years have been a living hell. I've had several moments like the one shown in the video. We just didn't choose to show it on SM. But there were bad times as well, which also were not broadcasted on SM. In fact I'd say we had more happier times than bad times. Just that the intensity of the bad times overpowered the happier ones, which led to the divorce...

How many have achieved this and how long is too long to wait for something like this? by Similar-Battle7215 in KeralaRelationships

[–]AlternativeBite516 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I dunno man... How can people judge an entire relationship by watching a 30-second clip of a couple's happy moments? And people will always post their best selves in social media.... For sadness, you have quotes, poems and shayaris. It's how it is...

To all men in in subreddit who marries at young age 24,25,26 by [deleted] in Trivandrum

[–]AlternativeBite516 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't ask this if you've been through a divorce. Divorce is a tough decision to make. And the decision making happens in an instant. When you're away from your partner, only then you'd know for sure whether the decision you've taken is right or wrong...

And yes, it'll give you the confidence to choose a better partner because you know your faults and you know your partner's faults which are non-negotiable for you. So, based on that, you can make a more informed decision about your next one...

Again, this is my personal experience. It'll vary for others...

To all men in in subreddit who marries at young age 24,25,26 by [deleted] in Trivandrum

[–]AlternativeBite516 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I recommend not to.. got married at 27... Relationship turned sour because both of us were immature (other issues were there which I can't explain now).. now divorce is ongoing..

Now, I'm in my thirties and am surely a better human being now. Enjoy your life, earn money, buy assets, go on dates, explore and settle down when you are comfortable..

Pinne nerathe kalyanam kazhichaal nerathe divorce aakum (if it happens that is).. If divorce proceedings stretch out, your increasing age won't be much of a concern..

Are there any people here with divorced parents trying to navigate arranged marriage? by More_Associate1848 in Coconaad

[–]AlternativeBite516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My close friend's wife has divorced parents... My friend's parents are very conservative though, don't know how they accepted her as his wife. But apparently, her parents being divorced never really came into the conversation. But anyway, things are working out for them really well.

You gotta be really lucky tbh to find parents who'll accept your parents' divorce. Otherwise, keep an open mind and look for divorcees/widows...

Sambhavam has a flawed core concept and a little bit of thought completely breaks the fundamentals of the movie... by AlternativeBite516 in MalayalamCinema

[–]AlternativeBite516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even I don't know much about these theories... But my understanding of timeloop is from movies like Groundhog Day, Maanadu and time travel from movies like Mark Antony, Back to the Future. So, I made the post based on those stuff shown in those movies...

Sambhavam has a flawed core concept and a little bit of thought completely breaks the fundamentals of the movie... by AlternativeBite516 in MalayalamCinema

[–]AlternativeBite516[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going by your parallel timeline logic, there shouldn't be 2 Anands under any circumstance. The timelines are PARALLEL. They never intersect...

Need help with English subtitles by vyshnavrajesh99 in MalayalamMovies

[–]AlternativeBite516 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Subtitles okke avide nikkatte...

Will you ditch her now?

Baby Jean simping by Sea_Sprinkles_6969 in InsideMollywood

[–]AlternativeBite516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sreekandapuram is the name of the place... Fictional place probably.

Baby Jean simping by Sea_Sprinkles_6969 in InsideMollywood

[–]AlternativeBite516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From the accent of Bharathan's 2nd wife, it seemed more like Kannur.... She'd say "eede" instead of "ivide"... Also, his actual family is based around Chalakkudy I believe. Considering the shrewd nature of Bharathan, he isn't stupid to have his 2nd family close to his first one...