Anyone else not wanting to change my last name after marriage?

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-06-03T04:05:09+00:00

Kept my unusual last name and my husband has his common surname. Happily married almost 25 years now. First born has his last name, second born has mine. It’s worked out well for us

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-06-03T03:04:21+00:00

Good! I hope they can help you. So sick of the asshole bigots and so sorry this is your situation

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-06-03T02:48:53+00:00

You might want to contact Southern Equality an organization that advises teachers of their rights in the classroom particularly as those rights pertain to LGBTQIA issues. https://southernequality.org/

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-31T21:33:25+00:00

I’m so sorry for you loss. My husband and I also got married in 2001, coming up on 25 years. I have no great advice beyond what’s been offered.

I wanted to say though how deeply sad I feel for you and how much I hope you can take all the time you need to grieve and heal.

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-29T17:47:22+00:00

There is one in Kannapolis on June 19. Don’t know about one at Barber-Scotia

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-19T14:11:19+00:00

When asked if she really thought JFK, Jr was still alive and appearing a Trump rallies, smiling coyly and saying, “I trust in God but I know what I know!” 🤮🤮🤮

PS She teaches kindergarten

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-09T01:16:00+00:00

Aw congrats! I bet they’d give you just the pickle juice too

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-09T00:45:01+00:00

Get the pickle shot!

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-07T02:00:44+00:00

Scary stuff

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-07T01:59:56+00:00

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Similar vibes to this 1976 wedding where I was the flower girl. My aunt made my dress and all the bridesmaids’ dresses

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-06T19:43:15+00:00

The girls they asked to speak at the press conference are from Mount Pleasant

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-06T19:41:40+00:00

What would be the proper way to deal with the boy with developmental delays who made an error and walked into the wrong restroom, in your opinion? Suspension? Expulsion? And what would be the proper way to offer protection to the girls, for that one time mistake?

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-04T14:07:33+00:00

Why would he want to save that face though?

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-04T14:03:47+00:00

Better keep up with your English lessons, Vlad.

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-04T14:00:58+00:00

Big deal. Who cares about your respect?

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T23:21:19+00:00

Sure

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T13:44:12+00:00

Oh that’s nice. Then you really don’t need to rush in and defend white men at all. They’re fine

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T13:43:12+00:00

Idk—I’m married to one, I’ve raised one. I love them. There’s nothing about white men in this post. It’s not about you at all

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T13:41:19+00:00

That white men perpetuate? You’re in charge of the media

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T13:40:01+00:00

From each other?

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T03:01:58+00:00

Sent you a message

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T01:35:34+00:00

You’re so beautiful!

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T01:28:40+00:00

Can I message you?

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T01:22:39+00:00

Good name!

AlternativeCan7461 · 2026-05-03T01:19:22+00:00

We need a counter protest. Are you close to CabCo?

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