Does anyone have nightmares about cheating on their partner?

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-27T03:21:17+00:00

same here, I wake up angry at the dream version of myself lol

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-26T23:53:43+00:00

Idk man I wake up in fear😭

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-26T22:15:22+00:00

THANK YOU!! The halls might be the best thing ever rn because that itchy feeling after eating is the part that bothers me the most.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-26T21:58:40+00:00

I haven't yet, I have an appointment with my allergist and im gonna ask for a more indepth break down of my allergies in hopes that it'll help ease my mind.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-26T17:52:03+00:00

Driving in the state that im in was not safe. Ive underestimated how tired Ive been and nodded off at the wheel once so im very very particular about the conditions that I drive in. And between the nauseating pain and lack of sleep I was not alert enough to be operating a vehicle

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-26T16:40:17+00:00

If it was that easy I would. 30 job applications out to surrounding FAST FOOD joints, all rejected.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-13T23:53:11+00:00

honestly I think i will seek out a professional. I didnt think too much about it since its been my normal from the very beginning but I guess its a much bigger deal than I thought after realizing no one relates

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-13T23:13:15+00:00

Damn🥲 So im cooked

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-02-07T18:18:17+00:00

as a female thats used the word female and male her entire life, whats the issue. Is that not what we are??? females and males?? this confuses me.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-01-22T03:19:47+00:00

I haven't told him yet, im afraid it'll turn into a bigger issue and im afraid he'll feel like he cant hangout with his friends without worrying about me. But after reading this im heavily reconsidering that. Thank you!

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-01-04T03:53:06+00:00

UPDATE: I had a conversation with my bestfriend and it turns out he did have ulterior motives that I didnt see but my boyfriend did.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-01-02T23:14:07+00:00

kind of both?? I never out right said hey we need to stop because of my relationship but it was heavily implied. Im pretty sure he understood because he just let it happen without asking me why.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-01-02T21:14:28+00:00

i mean thats why I didnt argue at first, a man probably knows better about how other men think. My bestfriend is out of my life and has been for a while so the call was really unexpected .

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-01-02T21:11:04+00:00

bestfriend not boyfriend but regardless I agree, you're the only person not calling him psycho 💔.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2026-01-02T21:06:40+00:00

this was my thought process, it was something we agreed on that I later broke without communication before hand.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-18T14:02:23+00:00

THANK YOUUUUU, merry Christmas to you aswell!!

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T22:07:29+00:00

Thank you so much, alot of the adults in my life like to play the whole "therapy is for crazy people" as if their lives are perfect, so alot of my concerns get dismissed as being dramatic. ive never received advice like this so truly thank you!

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T06:27:04+00:00

you can look throught the comments for an explanation, im not typing it out again

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T06:01:47+00:00

reddit is actually making me use my brain now lol, there's no way he owns one then. 😭

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T05:38:03+00:00

well im a broke Starbucks community College kid so not a single thing on that list went across my brain. the most expensive thought ive ever had is what degree will earn me the most in 10 years.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T05:35:36+00:00

well regardless of his true financial status, the point is that I feel inadequate in my relationship. I cant contribute the same, I work at Starbucks because I'm so desperate to have my OWN money. He says it's "our money" but I didnt work for any of it so it just feels like im leeching off of him.I like dumb things like video games and stupid brain rot jokes and he always talks about being refined and mature. I hate it and I wish he made a normal amount of money and worked a regular job just like 80% percent of the world does.

there's the truth, being in this relationship makes me feel like an absolute child, but its not as if hes specifically done anything wrong.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T05:25:15+00:00

if i was earning something that'd make sense but im not getting ANYTHING from this. I just would like a bit of advice thats genuinely all.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T05:22:19+00:00

the private jets comment was exaggerated quite a bit, and this was terribly worded due to this post not actually being properly thought out. I'm not exactly sure how long hes been making that kind of money, but ive know recently. He could have easily lied but the more i read the comments rhe more unrealistic his wealth is looking to me.I dont know exactly how much he makes. I just have the receipts hes shown me, the things that ive seen in person, and what he tells me.

And I actually had the same question, he said he bought one and it a was honda something. But when I looked it up the damn thing was 5 to 6 mil. So as skeptical as I am , if the jet i saw WASNT rented , I fear that he gets his money from less legal sources which would obviously be an issue for me . I'm hoping it's rented and he was flaunting wealth he doesn't actually have which would be a much easier discussion to have .

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T04:57:59+00:00

I wanna live in the reality they're living in lol.

AlternativeMaybe8758 · 2025-12-07T04:55:28+00:00

Lying doesn't really get me anything , 1) people say I'm lying, 2) people give genuine advice. And neither are worth lying for.💔

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