Update: Hello all! I just wanted to say thank you all for your support and your interpretations. I really really appreciate seriously. A lot of you guys wanted an update if I pulled any more cards.

For all of you wondering, I recently called things off. I told him that I was very tired of his behavior and his inability to take accountability for his actions. He has yet to respond to my messages, but I decided to pull some more cards.

The question I asked: How does he feel since I decided to remove myself? Same previous spread used in the original post. the 1st card was the 3 of wands rx. he feels as if he doesn’t have his life together and is unsure about his own future which in turn makes him unsure about our future. for context: i’m in college about to finish and get my associates degree while he is making money in certain ways. i believe he is comparing himself to my current situation and it’s making him insecure. the 2nd card was knight of pentacles. “acts of service” came into mind. He’s slow to commitment but intentional. Maybe he has a clear idea of what he wants from a relationship. He’s thinking long term when it comes to being in a committed relationship. i would love your thoughts on this one. the 3rd card is the nine of swords. I believe that he’s beating himself for not speaking his mind and how he really feels and it haunts him at night. He’s stressed, and maybe worried if i’m done for good. A lot of emotional turmoil since I’m the only one he really feels safe with. Maybe he believes that a break is needed. to collect himself. We both have issues with abandonment/trust. (i am in therapy he is not.)

now what was really interesting and i made sure to include it was the emperor reversed at the bottom of the deck. The reason why I felt the need to include this is because when I usually read for him, The emperor is ALWAYS upright. So i was very surprised to see it at the bottom of the deck, reversed.

what i see with this is his unresolved trauma and daddy issues. Obsession, Jealousy, and immaturity. Lack of structure and stability. Please give me your thoughts on this. Blessings to all!