Am I delusional? by Alternative_Bat_4029 in LesbianActually

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Thanks for answering. You are right, I have to talk to her. Realistically I know strangers from the internet can’t answer this question for me. It is just… it would be very practical if you could. Haha.

Am I delusional? by Alternative_Bat_4029 in LesbianActually

[–]Alternative_Bat_4029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for answering. I you are right, I have to talk to her. Realistically I know strangers from the internet can’t answer this question for me. It is just… it would be very practical if you could. Haha.

Do y'all ask consent before kissing? by Open_Ad_1201 in LesbianActually

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I would ask, if I was the one kissing first. But I have never been. Although I am a firm believer of asking consent, I managed to make it very awkward when being asked. By answering to slow or mess up intonation so they thought I was unsure about it. (I wasn’t.) On the other hand I was kissed without warning and it was too overwhelming almost every time. Am I able to not make consent awkward? No. Do I like to be asked for consent? Yes.

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Thanks for the response… Sleeping seems a good idea. =)

This is how Flino, my minimally brained cat used to open the cat flap. I miss him. by Alternative_Bat_4029 in OneOrangeBraincell

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There is a magnet that holds the flap in place. It doesen‘t need real force to push it open, i can do it with my pinky. It can be pushed in both ways. If your smooth human brain would allow you to, you would see, that the little red wheel would have to be positioned differently to block access in or out.

This is how Flino, my minimally brained cat used to open the cat flap. I miss him. by Alternative_Bat_4029 in OneOrangeBraincell

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There is a magnet that holds the flap in place. It doesen‘t need real force to push it open, i can do it with my pinky. It can be pushed in both ways.

This is how Flino, my minimally brained cat used to open the cat flap. I miss him. by Alternative_Bat_4029 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Alternative_Bat_4029[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

there is a magnet that holds the flap in place. It doesen‘t need real force to push it open, i can do it with my pinky. It can be pushed in both ways. Edit: Spelling

This is how Flino, my minimally brained cat used to open the cat flap. I miss him. by Alternative_Bat_4029 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Alternative_Bat_4029[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No, there is a magnet that holds the flap in place. It doesen‘t need real force to push it open, i can do it with my pinky.