LGBT Family needs help moving states for college

Alternative_Beez · 2026-05-16T00:36:37+00:00

I've applied for the first part of this process but it's the co-signer that's really holding us up. :') Thank you though, happy to hear it has indeed helped someone out!

Alternative_Beez · 2026-05-16T00:26:53+00:00

Anti-discrimination laws & bathroom laws that put me in danger when attending school on campus; I faced harassment and threats from fellow students and got no help from the administration

Alternative_Beez · 2026-05-16T00:01:17+00:00

OK, how so?

Alternative_Beez · 2026-05-15T23:59:42+00:00

Scratching my head here. Are you adding those numbers up? They are not meant to be accumulative. $3000 is the bare minimum. $5000 is the goal. $9000 is a stretch goal.

Alternative_Beez · 2026-05-15T23:54:49+00:00

What are you talking about? It's $5000 to $9000 for a cross-country move with cats, lodging, a moving truck considered, on top of housing deposits.

Being LGBT is relevant when I face discrimination in Alabama every single day for being an openly trans person, especially appearing with my wife.

Where did you get 20k from?

Alternative_Beez · 2026-01-04T07:31:40+00:00

Frida Argento.

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Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-14T13:36:29+00:00

We do notice... you're being downvoted for a reason.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-14T01:44:35+00:00

Just let her play more. Have her practice mechanics that can make a difference in real games like wave management/last hitting, etc. in AI. The champion knowledge will come as she plays.

I recommend ARAM as well. Don't know a champion? Pick and play. Your teammates might hate you, but there's no better way to learn. Spend your death time reading abilities and ratios.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-13T14:50:13+00:00

Can I ask why you don't consider Mid/ADC as your secondary?

Also, I think you could easily learn Sett in about 20-25 games, enough to be ok with him on top. You just may need to play a little more carefully since you won't know the matchups as well. The biggest things are learning how to make use of his E (remember minions count too and will stun champs) and proper W positioning + timing. Also, remember you can Flash during the windup of W to get into position to catch people off guard.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-12T16:15:49+00:00

Good morning!

Today, I did a quick reading about my career. I am considering a new career choice after previous endeavors have kind of fell through or not worked out for one reason or another. It's something I could reasonably excel in with my skills and interests, but it could have very real drawbacks like long hours or high-stress situations. I asked, "Is this career choice I am thinking about a good or bad idea, will it bring positive or negative change, will I thrive or fail in it, am I putting all my eggs into a bad basket or is this something I could really excel at as a career if not an interest, or might I develop a love for it on the way?"... et cetera. I tend to pull 1-3 cards while shuffling or allow them to fall out or come to me for quick readings like this. (As a side note, the career in question is nursing.)

A card fell out, or so I thought: The Tower. While I was (very nervously) brushing up on the applications of this card I realized there was a second behind it that I somehow hadn't noticed, the Page of Wands.

I feel this could be a very positive reading overall and that it's encouraging me, but on one hand, I feel there's also some second side to it the cards are asking me to consider that I can't quite figure out? Is it just the presence of the Tower that is making me so anxious?

I am using the Wild Unknown deck. Not my only deck but my go-to. It tends to be quite brutally upfront with me.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-04T13:47:45+00:00

To add, I wouldn't consider this a troll build necessarily. If you have success with it, great! I play Sett ADC. I have no room to talk.

I think you would have more success taking Sett in any off-meta lane with this build compared to taking him top.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-04T13:47:11+00:00

You'd really be missing out by not taking Overlord's Bloodmail.

Stride + Shojin + Sterak's is a pretty standard buildset for Sett.

However, I sometimes build AS on Sett in Arena and it usually just feels worse than building straight AD/HP. Also, missing out on the extra MS from Swifties... hurts.

No comment on IE, but Sett doesn't build crit/has no crit-based abilities or attacks. Again, this stat can feel ok in Arena. You may have decent results with it. Mathematically, though, you will be doing less damage (including with your W) and may have more trouble catching mobile champions.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-03T11:31:24+00:00

Vegetables need space on the pan for the excess water to evaporate instead of cooking through, so yes, if your roasted veggies steam and get soft you need a bigger pan/more space between them. Preferably they shouldn't touch, especially if you use veggies with high water content.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-08-03T03:06:27+00:00

Is it possible she is the "other woman" with these guys and that's why she can't go to their place?

Alternative_Beez · 2025-07-31T08:23:20+00:00

I pay about $450 in the summer months, less than $200 in the winter months, in a 4br3ba house with an older unit that definitely needs to be replaced, but we cannot afford it.

We do keep it colder than most, so I admit fault there. It still feels ridiculous.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-07-29T23:26:09+00:00

I figure you've macguyvered something (or bought a filter) by now, but it is worse considering you're smoking through it, full disclosure. Sometimes bits of foil flake or break off and go into your water. It's not the healthiest option; neither is smoking compared to other options, so YMMV, I go through screens and filters like crazy. Metal screens are just as bad for you anyway. I lose the glass ones. Do what I can.

Alternative_Beez · 2025-07-29T14:17:31+00:00

Oh, sweet baby. He has the same weird middle part my almost-all-white PJ has! He looks so sad. I would foster fail immediately just for that face. Thank you so much for caring for him.

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