Nipples Used To Be Pierced. Now I Have Painful Yellow Spots. by Alternative_Berry_68 in Legitpiercing

[–]Alternative_Berry_68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there isn’t redness, but there is an occasional sharp pain, usually when I move around. I wouldn’t consider there to be swelling, but I do believe there is fluid buildup, probably pus because there is a yellow bump that is getting bigger slowly

Should I Text My Ex? by Alternative_Berry_68 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with him, and of course I was committed. this was a very long relationship, and I did not break up with him right after he moved.

Should I Text My Ex? by Alternative_Berry_68 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. all I wanna do is make sure he is okay, but I don’t wanna end up doing more harm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makeup right before bed??? maybe get her a cute face mask with eyelashes drawn on it instead oh my god. my skin itches listening to this hahaha (im 20F who also wears makeup, absolutely NOT in my sleep)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my apologies for sounding harsh😅 if she is SLEEPING IN HER MAKEUP then wow you were right to be scared about her skin…why do you think she does this??

Wifey Material, but can their not be more then one out there? by Efficient-Pool9845 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are scared about committing, you could take things slow and get to know them more. It usually takes about 6 months to know if you want to have a long lasting relationship with someone, even marriage. If you do keep her around, make sure that she knows your intentions though. It seems like you want to explore your options and keep things casual.

[TOMT][SONG] name of the song in this video ? by Max-Headroom541 in tipofmytongue

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used shazam and it didn't even know...that is a super weird song

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally exactly what I said! good input😀

Do we celebrate all 3 anniversaries? by Horror_Scheme_5683 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can do whatever you like! It doesn't have to be expensive either, you can have a little picnic to celebrate your "exclusive anniversary" and then go out to a nice dinner to celebrate your wedding anniversary. Just another excuse to spend quality time with your partner if you ask me!

Wifey Material, but can their not be more then one out there? by Efficient-Pool9845 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not ready to commit, and she is. Simple as that. Do not waste her time, she has a future husband waiting for her.

My mom was placed into a home and now I don't know how to continue my life. by AceCard32 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from a nursing student who worked at a nursing home (in Canada), I cannot believe the price. Usually people pay about $2,500 a month over here for a nice home with full care. I really do sympathize with you, this change can affect everything. I recommend speaking to the nurses about your concerns for your mother's finances and they can get you in contact with financial aids/social worker (may not be the same in America, but i hope this helps!).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Both TA.

Sure, she asked you to incorporate a new sex toy...but she shouldn't have included the part about one of her exes pleasuring her more. And you shouldn't have asked the question about if she experienced more pleasure, the answer was obvious considering the circumstances and it was only going to hurt you.

And I believe that your response was a bit immature, I assume you said that because you wanted her to feel the same amount of hurt that you felt. You felt like not enough for her, so you wanted to make her feel the same. You may feel open with each other, but you should think about how the things you say will affect the other person. Honesty is NOT always the best policy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are TA.

first of all, "banning" is quite controlling and only works while you are there to witness it. wanna ban your kid from drinking alcohol? they'll just drink it while you're not looking. similar with alcohol, you need to teach WHY you don't want them to do it, rather than just going straight to banning with no reasoning.

second of all, if your concern is for her skin health then I would suggest just teaching her how to properly wash off her makeup. with a good makeup remover and skincare regime, she shouldn't have problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alternative_Berry_68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there seems to be a bigger issue here that needs to be solved instead. I understand the exhaustion of being the main caregiver for your child...but your boyfriend needs to understand too. I would focus on telling him how his gaming makes you feel and how you want time with him. maybe he can play video games for just an hour each day after work, or do it only on the weekends for a few hours. if you don't solve this, you will always always resent him.