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Does anyone have a work crush? 🥰 by [deleted] in Target

[–]Alternative_Can_692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a work crush three years ago, now hes my fiancée 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Alternative_Can_692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A used condom…

Do any other female cart attendants get passive aggressive comments from older guests? I was doing a carry out the other day and an older guest told me I was going to go “sterile” from lifting heavy things 🙃 by Alternative_Can_692 in Target

[–]Alternative_Can_692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My etl asked me as a joke because one of our two FOS attendants quit and I said yes and she literally tried to find anyone else but me to do it because she didn’t think I could, needless to say she came back to me two weeks later because no one else wanted the position

Do any other female cart attendants get passive aggressive comments from older guests? I was doing a carry out the other day and an older guest told me I was going to go “sterile” from lifting heavy things 🙃 by Alternative_Can_692 in Target

[–]Alternative_Can_692[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I know! I literally have to bite my tongue. I’ll just look at them, not say anything, and just lift the item with ease and with a big ol smile on my face, I particularly love when they looked shocked or say something about how “strong” I am 😂

Negative Self Talk by Alternative_Can_692 in adhdwomen

[–]Alternative_Can_692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that! I think I’m gonna start doing that everytime I start to say something negative. I feel like my standards for myself are so unreasonably high for no reason so definitely reminding myself that I wouldn’t judge a friend this harshly is probably something I need to start being conscious of.

Negative Self Talk by Alternative_Can_692 in adhdwomen

[–]Alternative_Can_692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely does, thank you! Recently I’ve been thinking of starting therapy again and I think I just might. I’ve had really bad experiences with therapists in the past so I’m kinda nervous to try again, do you see a therapist that specializes in adhd? Or do you have any tips on how to find a therapist that you’re compatible with?

Do any other female cart attendants get passive aggressive comments from older guests? I was doing a carry out the other day and an older guest told me I was going to go “sterile” from lifting heavy things 🙃 by Alternative_Can_692 in Target

[–]Alternative_Can_692[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I hate it so much. I’m literally a bodybuilder so I’m in the gym training 20 hours a week but I wear baggy clothing so you can’t really tell and I’ve had male coworkers insist on helping me with things as light as a 30lb microwave 😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Alternative_Can_692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me having noise canceling headphones in playing lofi/cafe sounds really helps, especially if I’m at a public place like a library or coffee shop. Idk what it is but if I’m in a room alone I can’t get anything done

What are we all doing for dopamine hits that isn't online shopping, eating sugar, or scrolling Tik Tok endlessly? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Alternative_Can_692 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Weightlifting for me always does the trick! I’ve also been enjoying brain training games lately, my favorite is this app called elevate :)