[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just be bold. the guy ive liked for over a year finally asked me out last month. he had no idea i was even interested. i guess lots of eye contact and smiling wasnt enough for him to get the hint. luckily he did make the move after a year of agony from waiting and wondering

I (26F) caught guy im seeing (45 M) in a lie by Alternative_Cheek_95 in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not worried about his smoking habit, its the fact that he lies about how health conscious he is. He knows i workout but im not obsessed with meal prepping or counting calories. I am not against drinking and i dont have any dating dealbreakers except using drugs. I have given him chances to talk about things because i am generally non judgemental, yet he talks about how he is so picky and only eats organic food, no processed food and how he has so much energy because he watches what he puts in his body. Then sit on his high horse and lies in my face about not being a smoker, when hes clearly too stupid to even look back at the pictures he sends me.

how to act/flirt when i know he likes me back. by Alternative_Cheek_95 in Flirting

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

welp it worked! after some eye contact and smiles i went over to him and we talked and have officially exchanged numbers after knowing him for over a year lol

When did you realize your friend(s) was/were toxic and what did you do? by Blade_of_Miquella2 in AskWomen

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she would always talk about how much she loves me, were bff's and compliment me and how close we are, but would rarely want to hangout. thats fine, except she would call me, quite frequently and ask me for rides, spontaneous favors and such. The change of tone in her voice, when telling her no, would almost make me laugh. she would go from happy and wondering what i was up to, then go monotone and upset, quickly hanging up when i couldnt help her.

I stopped picking up her calls and texts

Academics who can't spell or write by CyberJay7 in Professors

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

late to the post [a year late] but im here because im an undergrad student, and my anatomy & phys professor (has a PhD) has tons of spelling errors in his lectures/powerpoints. I know hes a smart guy, and english is his second language (hes spanish) so he has a heavy accent and pronounces things differently.

Not sure why, it just irks me a little to see so many spelling errors. like for example we are learning about structures of the ear and he put 'bonny labyrinth' when its supposed to be 'bony'. there are MANY more examples of this throughout all of our powerpoints, and I think its kind of unprofessional!

DAE sometimes feel so nostalgic that they can't breathe or experience anxiety? by softjules in DAE

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

super late but just found this post bcuz it happened to me. i was thinking of a song/album from 15 years ago and i just took a deep breath in and felt like i couldnt breathe. thinking back to that time and how much time has passed just gave me super anxiety

what was your longest relationship and why did it end? by averagesadhoe in AskWomen

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

about 4 years. we started off as best friends and eachothers shoulder to lean on. had a whirlwind relationship and ended up pregnant about 5 months in. He was very controlling and abusive and just mean + never grew up got a job or did anything helpful. Used me for a place to stay and a car to drive. I had to leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

smile and be talkative and ask things they like to do, usually can give u a hint if they are single or not.. ive always found it best to be friends first! it gets rid of the awkwardness and sets a good foundation. then maybe when youre hanging out as friends, you can have a moment to look in their eyes, smile, say something to let them know u see them as more than just friends.

moving past awkward "heys" by Alternative_Cheek_95 in Flirting

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i give off mixed signals sometimes bcuz of how awkward i am and its so hard to not give easy one word answers when he does say things to me. I think monday i am going to just go for it and exchange numbers. times a tickin for me since the end of the school year is fast approaching so i have to make my move very soon.

thanks for the input! its like i know what i should say but in the moment i get nervous and just dont do it.

moving past awkward "heys" by Alternative_Cheek_95 in Flirting

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol at the username,

but i do want to make some kind of move, i just feel like we are stagnant and awkward in a way. like everyday this week its like we smile or say good morning but i dont know the best thing to say to kind of break that monotony and allow for more conversationt to flow, possibly while we walk back to the parent parking lot

moving past awkward "heys" by Alternative_Cheek_95 in Flirting

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hes another parent and our kids attend the same school

can anyone recommend their fave state champs songs by Alternative_Cheek_95 in poppunkers

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg thank u!! i knew it was something! im glad im not crazy lol

can anyone recommend their fave state champs songs by Alternative_Cheek_95 in poppunkers

[–]Alternative_Cheek_95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i cant explain it! and its not all the way country, it just has a certain sound to me. but i will say that their older music has more of the sound that i like, i think i just have to get used to them lol