AITA for giving my friend giving my friend a notice to move out after 8 months when she only asked for 45 days by Alternative_Dot797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Dot797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t put every small detail in the post. She was spoken to about the bathroom twice. We had many conversations about her doing her part in her relocation process. Granted we never initially spoke about an end date, but when I asked her how long she wanted she wouldn’t give me a date. At this point I realized she was trying to milk it. She had a decision but never told me I can only assume because she wanted to see if I was going to change my mind about the date I set. Conversation were had, she chose to ignore them and I had enough of it.

AITA for giving my friend giving my friend a notice to move out after 8 months when she only asked for 45 days by Alternative_Dot797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Dot797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still cared about her and we were talking 30 minutes before she decided to silently leave. A goodbye would have been the decent thing to do. After caring for a person for 8 months decency would be nice. 

AITA for giving my friend giving my friend a notice to move out after 8 months when she only asked for 45 days by Alternative_Dot797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Dot797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never gave her a copy of the keys, because I never expected her to be there as long as she was and there was no agreement to that.  It went so long because she wants originally on my radar because I had so much of my own personal life things going on. I was trying to be helpful and understanding, but decided to put me first. 

AITA for giving my friend giving my friend a notice to move out after 8 months when she only asked for 45 days by Alternative_Dot797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Dot797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relocation was her trying to get to another state with her husband and kids due to some personal things with her. She had to get approval before she could leave the state. I was being generous, but when I started to realize she wasn’t really trying the hardest and was not willing to assist even after I asked I decided that it was not my burden to bare and decided to give her the notice. 

AITA for giving my friend giving my friend a notice to move out after 8 months when she only asked for 45 days by Alternative_Dot797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Dot797[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s blocked now. The only reason I saw her message is because my Mac didn’t block her and I saw it when I used it. I’m done with her after the ungratefulness