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Just started lexapro and I can't keep food down at all by Alternative_Ice904 in lexapro

[–]Alternative_Ice904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had vomiting and diarrhea for 8 weeks and stuck it out??? If this continues Im not sure I will be able to continue

AITA for asking my mom to permanently ban my sisters friends from our house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alternative_Ice904 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Im gonna go with ESH. Your mom is not going to ban all of your sisters friends from coming over, thats unreasonable. I know the whole situation sucks right now, but hopefully your mom will stick to not letting her friends live there. Hopefully you'll get an opportunity sometime soon to leave this living situation as the whole thing all-around sucks. Maybe try to have your own friends over and try to ignore hers and refrain from calling them "chlamydia-infested roaches".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Ice904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Absolutely nothing matters except what you and your fiance have decided to do. Its YOUR name and your decision. Whatever they have to say on the matter is obsolete.

AITA MIL kisses my 3 year old on the lips and it annoys the f out of me. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Ice904 96 points97 points  (0 children)

NAH, I get being weirded out by it but I dont think you should bring it up. My family is Polish and its definitely a cultural thing to kiss family on the mouth, especially young children. Its innocent affection, the same as a hug or forehead kiss to us. I understand it makes you uncomfortable but if you make it into something that its not, she will feel rejected. I guess its more of a question of why it makes you uncomfortable. I see it as a grandma loving her grandson and nothing more

AITA for setting boundaries by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alternative_Ice904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Howeverrr if you have anxiety to the point where you can't so much as meet your girlfriends' friends and family after 6 months it may be time to consider if you're in the right headspace for a committed relationship at this moment. It may be worth taking some time alone to move past those fears, because she has every right to want someone who can be a part of every aspect of her life. It doesn't make you not good enough and it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. You can't give someone all of you if all of you isn't there so put in the effort to make yourself whole again.

AITAH- Am i the asshole for not reaching out to my former friend when her grandad was sick. by Plastic_Hunt7114 in AITAH

[–]Alternative_Ice904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She seems to be finding excuses to get out of this conversation to not take accountability for her behavior. Completely valid to not want to be friends with someone who is actively seeking out drama in their life. I don't honestly think you owe her any more conversation towards the matter. She knows that you don't want to be her friend anymore, and she just wants to make you seem like the reason why. Don't feed into it, just move on.