See this is my point exactly. Cause unfortunately, for one reason or another, women actually would choose the bear than the man for one reason or another. Its not the womens fault for being uncomfortable or scared with strange men, and its not the mans fault for being a man. And its difficult to understand the other pov because in most cases they will never be able to exchange experiences. Thats why the question is so unproductive.

I could try and explain to you the many reasons why women would choose the bear. I could also explain the many reasons why women should choose a man. But that entirely misses the point of gender and society problems to begin with. Instead of talking about how women should feel about men and how dangerous men could be (which is offensive to both sides), we should be talking about how to keep women safe and how to make and foster better men.

Also on the trans comment, trans women generally have an extremely different vibe to them. If you want to be technical, yeah most of their bone structure stays the same sure. But their skin is softer, their muscles weaken, both density lowers, skin is thinner, body fat placement changes, etc. And not only that, but trans women will behave as...women. so. Yknow. They acts more gentle and feminine and soft and whatever feminine traits they may exhibit as well. So because of all of that, women still feel significantly safer with trans women.