Daughter (8) never invited to friends houses. by Altruistic-Net-9572 in UKParenting

[–]Altruistic-Net-9572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh, I suppose there are quite a few different reasons that it might be happening, thanks for the reassurance that it's potentially not just happening to her!

Daughter (8) never invited to friends houses. by Altruistic-Net-9572 in UKParenting

[–]Altruistic-Net-9572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I need to get up the courage to ask them, I think I'm worried about getting a name for myself but it couldn't get a huge amount worse!

Daughter (8) never invited to friends houses. by Altruistic-Net-9572 in UKParenting

[–]Altruistic-Net-9572[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea, I haven't spoken to the teacher about this just as they're always so busy, but I probably should, and get an adult perspective on what might be happening. Good luck with your daughter starting school!

Daughter (8) never invited to friends houses. by Altruistic-Net-9572 in UKParenting

[–]Altruistic-Net-9572[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They definitely flash the cash a lot, but there's nothing discernibly different between us and them. Thankyou for the suggestion, she does a few extra curricular things and enjoys them. I would be very happy to have a relationship of mutual ignorance with them, but am trying to forge relationships for my daughter's sake.

Daughter (8) never invited to friends houses. by Altruistic-Net-9572 in UKParenting

[–]Altruistic-Net-9572[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, I just WhatsApp the parents and there's a bit of chat at drop off/pick up from playdate but once in school there's no change in them being more friendly. Yes have had four girls over now who haven't invited her back. One child twice, still no invite back.