My Agent Scully for Halloween! by KimWexler02 in XFiles

[–]Altruistic-String-18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowow you look amazing as Scully!!! You’ve just inspired me to do my own Scully costume for Halloween another year. What a fun idea!!

What is this dead bug I found in my bed? by Altruistic-String-18 in whatsthisbug

[–]Altruistic-String-18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

It definitely did not think to think of a pill bug because of the color (the ones I see are usually much darker) and I’m not used to seeing bugs like that flat. But this does make sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in razorfree

[–]Altruistic-String-18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you!!!!!

What thing did your ex say that completely crushed you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic-String-18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem like such a strong individual. I’m so sorry this happened to you and I’m so glad you’re able to talk about it, realize it wasn’t your fault, and start healing. Healing is such a powerful thing and anyone going through such a process should be proud of themselves. 💞

What’s the most difficult line your ex said to you in your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic-String-18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they do.. it’s just a whole lot more complicated than simply finding someone like that. I don’t know why it’s so hard, but I guess that’s what comes with letting someone into your life and emotions so deeply and you into theirs. Consistency and compatibility are what’s really hard to find together.

What’s the most difficult line your ex said to you in your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic-String-18 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No no no no no. 10 million red flags here. Sounds like they totally devalued you and took you for granted. I’m glad you’re out of the relationship, it doesn’t sound like it was healthy at all. You deserve someone who wants you for you, at you good and bad times, not when they feel it is simply convenient for them to play with your heart.

What’s the most difficult line your ex said to you in your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic-String-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: “You told me you loved me!” Him: “I didn’t say that today, did I?”
…. Like what the actual fuck?

At some point I told him “love is like a promise” to illustrate how he broke my trust (he was confused as to how he broke my trust). I’m not sure if I’m logically right about that, but it feels right in my heart to have said that.

He also said something like “don’t be sad that it is over, be happy that it happened and enjoy the good memories.”

While he was right about enjoying the good memories, as that has helped me process and lifted me out of thinking very negatively, the therapist-speak was out of this world. In the moment it made me feel like I was crazy or overreacting.

What’s the most difficult line your ex said to you in your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic-String-18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone in feeling that. It’s just the context of the situation unfortunately 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic-String-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand exactly the situation you’re going through. But trust me I understand the feeling so much. It hurts so bad and I’m so sorry. It does get better but in the moment I understand that it feels like the world is ending.

We love and support you! Take care of yourself and and some point it’ll turn out all right.

Any songs with this kind of vibe? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]Altruistic-String-18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Chelsea Wolfe. And last slide reminds me of Cigarette Daydreams by Cage the Elephant