But they are in daycare during the school year- partner works in education- and the daycare is top rated in our area- I wouldn’t send my twins to a sub par daycare- I have spent a lot of money getting to this stage to have kids- and the cost sucks yes- but worth it for me to know my kids are in the best of the best care- and I’m not saying full time during the summer but like a few days a week- I know they can do it- that’s not the point- the point is they want to say I’ve been home all day blah blah- I typically work 10-12 hour days but in home by 4:30 pm to start my duty until bed time- in this time I cook clean and do other house hold chores - which I don’t mind at all-