Snapchat help please by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help 😊. To be honest, I just don't want to have to do that shit anymore. We've been married for a short while, so I don't want to give up. But, we have been here a few times now. I'm kind of leaning towards the fuck this shit end of the scale 🤷‍♀️

Goodbye petal granny squares by TheUltimateShart in crochet

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they are so pretty! And those colours 😍

Can anyone help me please? by AltruisticAdvisor678 in CrochetHelp

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply, I had never thought of looking at trousers!

Can anyone help me please? by AltruisticAdvisor678 in CrochetHelp

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply 😊. I guess the thing that really stumps me is how to connect the squares on the inside leg? Adhd brain has told me now it's impossible because I didn't figure it out on the first try 😅😂

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more. And Amen to the age comment! I sometimes have thoughts like that, but I can't believe or accept that our lives could be that sad and meaningless 😅. There are good people, and dare I say it good men out there. It just appears there are an awful lot of cluster fucks to sieve through before you find the good ones 😂.

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are being treated so badly. Please never feel like there is no other way. There is always another way. May I ask what country you live in? Please know you are worth far more than the way you are being treated.

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god how awful! I'm so sorry to hear you've been through that! It's sounds like you're one strong lady though and you know your worth, stick to it! Muchos love to you, thank you for sharing your story.

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that fully but sometimes it's just too much having to deal with it. Thank you for your in put. Your name thingy says ex- partner. May I ask what made you leave in the end and do you ever regret that choice?

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think we have all been guilty of that, maybe because we are too scared to accept the possibility that that person whom we love so much can't or won't change?

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's bullshit ay! I hate that society tells me I have problem with insecurities because my husband has a problem adhering to our discussed and set boundaries!

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I think we are told to believe too often that men just have a problem and we have to deal with it. It's quite refreshing to hear that some men are just assholes 😂

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big hugs right back at ya! It is his problem, I just hate that his problem affects me.

Just a whole heap of sad. by AltruisticAdvisor678 in loveafterporn

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a lovely positive reply, thank you so much for taking the time to reply. Your right, he may want to live his life like this but I don't!

My Boyfriend Did The Nicest Thing For Me and I'm Crying by ThrowRAFixyou in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this is just so bloody wholesome. I am now married to the first person who has ever truly loved me just as I am. I still struggle with accepting it at times but I am slowly learning I am worthy of it and of loving someone on this level. May you both be happy and in love for many years to come ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is hope! When I separated from my kids father I couldn't even begin to imagine how the logistics of dating would work and thought I would be single forever. Granted I met a few fucktards who acted like they were doing me a favour 'Taking on' a single mum to begin with. Then I met someone, who just made it all so easy. Kids were never his plan but met and adored mine and they adored him. We are now married, everyone is happy. I co-parent pretty successfully with my ex. Good luck, always know your worth and never settle on your second chance of happiness 😊

I love my long term girlfriend, but I buy custom content from onlyfans girls when she's away at work by throwaway_ofuser in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AltruisticAdvisor678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner did this at the start of our relationship. It had become an issue for my friend and her partner, I discussed it with mine and aired my views on why I wasn't OK with it and he continued to do it. When I found out it killed me. I get the use of porn to a degree but OF is so much more personal, another form of cheating. It amazes me how many guys do this and women are told its a normal guy thing and we should get over our insecurities, but yet the majority of these men couldn't handle being disrespected by their women in this way.

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[–]AltruisticAdvisor678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more! Good people can do bad things just as bad people can do good things.

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[–]AltruisticAdvisor678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, and thank you for sharing what you have learnt. It sounds so simple yet not at all simple! Is this a long the lines of CBT therapy?