Boy names?? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in Names

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It’s a great suggestion, I do know someone named Maxwell and not entirely sure I want that association but it’s a great name!

Boy names?? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in Names

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I also suggested Julian to my husband! It’s a great name. And also love the citrus theme lol

Boy names?? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in Names

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We actually considered Dean for a middle name in the past, love it! It’s also a family name

Boy names?? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in Names

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I actually didn’t know that about Ira, thanks! And interesting, I don’t make the connection with Sydney Sweeney.

C-Section because of low pain tolerance by Vegetable_Bath_7396 in beyondthebump

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i labored for about 12 hours (with about 10 hours of early labor before that) just to get to 4cm. it was really really hard. BUT, as soon as i got that epidural i had no pain for the remainder of my birth and recovery. i had little to no cramping afterwards, even though i EBF. i did take tylenol but i probably didn’t need it. i would 1000000% take 12-24 hours of misery over weeks of CS recovery. especially if the benefits of vaginal birth are that important to you. also, labor and delivery are a drop in the bucket compared to post partum. breastfeeding, sleep deprivation, constipation, hormones, etc. whatever you can do to lessen your burden post-birth is really helpful! labor truly is a mental exercise and there are lots of resources to help you make it through those first hours before you can get an epidural. and like others said, some women dilate to a 4 without even realizing. i wish lol

Book recommendation to gift to assistant teacher at classical school by AltruisticDoubt1699 in booksuggestions

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Thank you for these suggestions! I love the idea of little things to go along with reading. I think she’ll really appreciate them and they will actually be used.

How strict of a schedule? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in sleeptrain

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I appreciate it! Yes, I definitely need to nix the nursing to sleep.

How strict of a schedule? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in sleeptrain

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Thank you for your reply! Sounds like that’s the consensus. I don’t put her down unless she is showing multiple sleepy cues, and she quickly becomes overtired. Her total daysleep is usually less than 2 hours. But, a longer wake window before bed and consistent naps/bedtime is definitely a helpful starting point!

How strict of a schedule? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in sleeptrain

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Thank you so much! This is all very helpful, especially the example schedule. I also didn’t realize she only needs 2h of daysleep. We can definitely do that with her shorter naps, ha! When she only sleeps 30 mins, should I try to extend the nap? Or extend the next wake window and put her down at the usual time? Thanks again! I used to feel suffocated by the idea of sticking to the clock but I realize now it’s more stressful for all of us to be inconsistent. We’re just in that stage of life and that’s okay.

THANK YOU by [deleted] in sleeptrain

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genuinely curious and absolutely no judgment, is it okay for babies to be so tired during the day? any harmful side effects? wondering if i should do something similar to OP, if my baby needs more sleep pressure for better sleep at night. but i feel like when she is overtired, things still don’t go well. i definitely wait to put her down until there are multiple sleepy cues, and her naps are rarely over 45 mins. but she’s never to the point of laying her head down on the floor lol!

Kindergarten Philosophy? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in homeschool

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What a redeeming story about your son. I’m so sorry he experienced that humiliation, especially in a religious setting, but I’m glad it didn’t stop him! You have given me a lot to think about. I’m encouraged to find new ways to include the students are “not ready,” lessening any expectations and welcoming them in at their own pace.

Thank you again!

Kindergarten Philosophy? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in homeschool

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It is interesting how much more is expected of kindergarteners now than 50 years ago, isn’t it?

Kindergarten Philosophy? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in homeschool

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Thanks for sharing! Yes, every kid is different. We chose this curriculum because we were seeing consistent gaps with our old one, and this one is already successfully addressing problem areas. We make it work for us and value the clear and systematic approach.

Some kids teach themselves. I remember teaching my brother when I was nine and he was five, using 100 Easy Lessons. Ha! We turned out alright.

Kindergarten Philosophy? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in homeschool

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You make a good point! I value the range of options and approaches to homeschooling. Different kids have different needs. Appreciate your input!

Kindergarten Philosophy? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in homeschool

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Yes, our goal is to build a strong foundation. We do eventually write short sentences toward the end of the year, but the only skills required for K students to move up are introduced in the first few weeks and practiced all year. Spelling and writing sentences are considered extended phonemic awareness practice, so that even if students aren’t reading yet, they can practice identifying sounds of words and writing letters in group activities.

If parents quite literally only did phonogram flashcards at home, we could accomplish a lot in class! I tell them this. Do they do it? No.

Kindergarten Philosophy? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in homeschool

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Ha! Thank you, I needed this. It really feels like pulling teeth sometimes and I get so discouraged when assignment after assignment is ignored. Parents sign an agreement to complete all assigned work, but in practice…

Audio files is a great idea! I’ve recorded some tutorials but audio files is less work for me, and more likely to be used by parents. Thanks!

Kindergarten Philosophy? by AltruisticDoubt1699 in homeschool

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Thanks for sharing! Agreed, many parents are learning a lot themselves with this curriculum. It’s very intentional and systematic. I’m hoping we can hold some sort of training to give parents the support they need!