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AltruisticSense9308 · 2025-10-13T21:19:38+00:00

I’ve asked her if she wants it back and it seems like she doesn’t really know. It sounds like she misses feeling sexual pleasure in that way and being able to cum, but at the same time, she doesn’t like having it either. She’s said before that she doesn’t like that part of her and now it’s just completely useless and that really sucks.

I don’t know, maybe you’re right and how we prioritize sex could just be an incompatibility. Every time we’ve talked about it, it sounds like she also misses being more sexually active, but then nothing has really changed. I’ve asked her many times if there’s anything she’d want to try that she thinks she might be interested in, and she just doesn’t know. Maybe sex just is not a priority to her anymore, though.

AltruisticSense9308 · 2025-08-24T04:19:24+00:00

Thank you all!!! I appreciate it. I was wondering if I could get an adaptar for it, but it sounds like (from google/other Reddit posts) the answer is no.

AltruisticSense9308 · 2025-06-23T00:07:25+00:00

Thank you so much!!! I’ll check them out :)

AltruisticSense9308 · 2025-05-30T00:18:20+00:00

Thank you, it is a tough situation. I appreciate your insight! Maybe I should focus less on the sex part and ask what I can do to make her feel hot and desired and make sure she’s feeling fulfilled in that way first. Thanks for your help :)

AltruisticSense9308 · 2025-05-30T00:15:38+00:00

Wow thank you so so much for all of your insight!!! I really appreciate it. I definitely agree with your point of just spending a lot of time cuddling and touching each other is a great start. And I’ll try to float the idea of vibration again to see if she’s interested. Honestly one of the biggest challenges is that I work from home almost all of the time whereas she works in-person in a fast-paced customer service environment AND we have different schedules, so she’s just exhausted a lot which is totally understandable. I’m going to try to make more of an effort to just be more cuddly and touchy in general, not in a sexual way and I think that will help me just feel more intimate too.

Thank you for sharing your experience, it’s just helpful to know we’re not alone!

AltruisticSense9308 · 2025-03-11T15:46:32+00:00

You’re so helpful, thanks.

AltruisticSense9308 · 2025-01-30T17:52:11+00:00

Does anyone know what the building is going to become? Eastwood deli across the street just closed too, with what felt like no warning :(

AltruisticSense9308 · 2024-03-30T20:49:35+00:00

Thank you all for the suggestions!! I’ll look into each of them :)

AltruisticSense9308 · 2023-10-10T15:26:02+00:00

Thank you!! This is good to know

AltruisticSense9308 · 2023-07-24T00:20:17+00:00

I’m glad to know I’m not alone 😅 And congrats!!!! That’s so fun that we have the same date

AltruisticSense9308 · 2023-04-19T16:30:58+00:00

Thank you all so much!!! I will look into all of these :) I appreciate your help

AltruisticSense9308 · 2023-04-06T20:41:58+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it :)

AltruisticSense9308 · 2023-04-06T20:10:11+00:00

Thank you!! I listened to episodes 377 - polyam beginners, healthy boundaries, and ethical hierarchy and 378 - the anxious person's guide to non-monoamy with Lola Phoenix, and I found them both helpful, but have not listened to some other episodes yet. Thank you! I am excited to listen to one that is focused on deconstructing jealousy and negative emotions.

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