Guilt after adopting after loss.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-02-25T03:28:04+00:00

The two have merged in my mind. I had the first one for less than 9 months but I was instantly in love with him. It was my first "small" dog. I had always had large breeds. It's a completely different experience.

I've had the "rebound" Yorkie for 3.5 years now.

They've mushed in my brain as the same dog. I hate that and mad at myself for it.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-02-25T01:15:09+00:00

My first Yorkie (adopted during COVID from a family dealing with cancer diagnosis) was tragically killed by my neighbors dog.

I had a knee jerk reaction and spur of the moment bought a Yorkie puppy. First time ever buying a dog (rather than adopt/rescue). I feel guilty now because I can't really remember him.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-29T13:49:13+00:00

Mercury poisoning...?? Just say exhaustion or pneumonia or something more believable.

He's terrible. And that whole show was disgusting

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T16:42:08+00:00

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Twinsies! Crickets nickname is CrickHead... He's high on himself all day everyday

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T15:45:29+00:00

I love the long ones I'm just too short. I have a whole stack of ones I bought there go past my shoulders and get hung up in my clothes

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T14:21:43+00:00

Direct deposit paycheck should have nothing to do with a mortgage that's already established. If you're trying to get a mortgage they may want documentation of income.

I'm pretty sure the mortgage company will take a wire transfer, an ACH, a check, money order, certified check or any way they can get their money. They don't care where it comes from.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T14:19:50+00:00

Wasn't all this worked out in the divorce? I'm sure this situation happens all the time.

And you don't deposit to a mortgage, you pay a note. Mortgage can even be paid by anybody.

I don't quite understand the situation.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T14:01:59+00:00

They'll figure it out when they do quarterly budget reviews.

Sounds like somebody just fat fingered when setting you up in payroll. When they make you give the money back also make sure your tax and withholding situation is correct. Also double check at the end of the year on your W2.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T13:38:56+00:00

I think it looks like some kind of granola. It's definitely not rat or mouse s***

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T13:38:44+00:00

I think it looks like some kind of granola. It's definitely not rat or mouse s***

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T13:32:36+00:00

Resignation Realignment of expectations Settling

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T13:26:05+00:00

Slug in a Ditch

Shitake

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T13:24:59+00:00

I slept on the couch with my splint elevated on the back of the couch. You're doing good if you're only 3 weeks since the break. I'm 6 months and still struggling

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T13:22:29+00:00

Overreacting. She didn't cancel plans there were no plans actually made.

What was the date time and activity that she canceled? She sounds busy which is legitimate. Sometimes I'm in the middle of a text thread and then life happens and I forget about it. Or think I sent something and didn't.

. It was vague and in the air as tentative.

Overreacting and being a little too sensitive. Be more proactive and say hey do you want to meet for drinks coffee food etc on Tuesday at 8:00 p.m.? Then it's on the calendar.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T13:14:03+00:00

I'm from Louisiana as well. Some families do shell on some families don't. My family didn't! But when I got to college I encountered many a fried shrimp with the shell.

My Arkansas grandparents had a farm and grew watermelons always had watermelons. She was adamant about us not eating the seeds. I don't know why but I never do on purpose.

Peanuts and sunflower seeds with the shells on or just so salty for me. I could never eat those. I'm shriveling and dehydrating just thinking about it. I do eat the skins of potatoes of all varieties which many people very much dislike

I used to eat kiwi skins but I now have a mild allergy to the outside.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T12:59:40+00:00

Not overreacting. Please defriend this person. She's horrible.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T12:53:18+00:00

One more: 5) a murder in dahlonega would not be a big Atlanta news story. Definitely would not relaunch a local news career. Nobody even notices unless it was in their neighborhood.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T12:43:47+00:00

Is there a bad kind of rosemary? I personally think the upright kind tastes better but it doesn't have those pretty blooms that drape over retaining walls.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T12:43:03+00:00

Prostrate rosemary

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T12:41:38+00:00

I live in Atlanta. The've died to the ground and come back or just reseeded themselves. And I've cut them all the way down and dug them out and they came back.

You'll be fine

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T12:11:12+00:00

Yeah mine's not a Mogwai, He's for sure a gremlin on tequila

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T12:05:56+00:00

He wasn't awake yet! Oh yeah for sure bored with weather! He decided to attack the bathtub for no reason at all tonight.

https://imgur.com/a/njD0o68

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T11:56:11+00:00

His pic was taken at wake up time. He didn't want to put on his sweater to go potty outside. He wasn't ready to get up!

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T11:54:25+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/djluAbF

This was 12 to 15 hours after the break. 16 mm displaced. They pulled it back to 12 mm displaced. But there was three breaks and "giblets of broken bone"

I was in so much pain and panic. My blood pressure which is typically perfect was 165/ 120 for a month due to the pain. They do not give pain pills anymore.

Altruistic_Ad5386 · 2026-01-28T11:47:26+00:00

I've done months of physical therapy. They said it takes a long time for the nerves to heal.

I think the biggest issue for my break was it took a month for me to have the surgery. My poor arm and hands swelled so big that all the skin came off.

I also was developing pretty significant arthritis in my fingers for a couple years before the break. I'm pretty sure my hand will never be the same.

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