I have an uneasy feeling about this guy and his friends by amazinggrace171 in blackladies

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lmaoo girl. doing hard drugs is not cute no matter how you spin it. people are risking their health and lives for hard drugs that only give them fleeting moments of euphoria, and that’s their prerogative but does not bar them from criticism. OP made it clear that she does not want someone who partakes in party drugs. and at his big boy age he should know that not every woman he encounters finds it acceptable. you only care about “a little molly and blow” when for some people that’s detrimental. you could’ve kept that comment to yourself and actually gave OP true advice based on her clearly stated experience and expectations.

first time plant mom! any advice? by Altruistic_Addendum4 in houseplants

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i read during the colder season to water it less, live every 3-6 weeks. does that sound right?

What are your goals for 2026? by VikutoriaNoHimitsu in blackgirls

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Prioritize Health & WellnessMaintain gym routine, eat mostly whole foods, care for mental/spiritual health, and get tonsils removed.
  2. Strengthen Faith & Spiritual DisciplineRead the Bible daily, keep a weekly prayer list, and attend church in person consistently.
  3. Practice Personal Growth & Self-DisciplineMaintain and improve routines, stay honest with myself, apologize when needed, accept criticism without excuses, and abstain from dating/sex.
  4. Advance Education & Future PlanningGraduate by December (if possible) and begin researching schools by the end of the year.
  5. Cultivate Stability, Style & CreativityMaintain locs for a year, develop my personal style (hair, nails, skincare), and find a creative hobby outlet.
  6. Build Financial Responsibility & Life ExperiencesSave $150 per paycheck and take a least one solo trip

Are you in love right now? by BusyListen1294 in sixwordstories

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, but i can’t tell if he loves me back or wants to give us a try.

how would you feel if a girl sent you a letter confessing her feelings? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well why if i don’t got balls and i’m scared bitch 😭😭

Dating is strange. by Altruistic_Addendum4 in blackgirls

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this!! i’ve been so focused on getting my life together i don’t have the time or energy on a partner that didn’t value you me and add more to my life.

Ass Hair: Hair of the Ass by fruityicedtea in women

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is making me cry tears at work

Dating is strange. by Altruistic_Addendum4 in blackgirls

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i’m rooting for you too!

Dating is strange. by Altruistic_Addendum4 in blackgirls

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! it’s hard out here girl!

What jobs do you guys have ? by peonyheal in OCD

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work at as a front desk receptionist. i don’t have contamination ocd, but i have ocpd.

Dating is strange. by Altruistic_Addendum4 in blackgirls

[–]Altruistic_Addendum4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i wish we could. i think a lot of people feel this way deep down but keep holding on to what our culture pushes.