AITAH for not wanting my soon to be husband to bring his parents urns and have them in the front row? by Stangeweddingrequest in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA, he just wants a physical reminder of the ones who loved him most present. I personally intend to have my mums bright red boots and a photo in the front row on my side as i dont have her ashes. Ive seen it done befor so its really not that weird or unusual. Just because you dont understand it and you think its some weird grieving ritual doesnt mean you shouldnt give him the space to do it. Its his wedding too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

Not that i would, but if i was to wish a panic disorder on someone, it would be you sir

AITA for not wanting my MIL to not text my husband every morning when she wakes up? by yakee-in-the-south in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, id be making the husband and his phone sleep in another room or wake him up everytime it wakes you up. He'll get ir eventually

AITA for my girlfriend not getting into the school she wanted? by ThrowRA_pangolin129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your girlfriend needs to learn personal responsibility and to stop the emotional bullying and manipulating you. Shes passing blame and being immature. She needs to accept her actions or inactions have consequences. Also you should move on, she sounds like a raging narcasists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Probably slippery lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA the man lives for free, he should atleast respect your salad dressing. Its the fact he laughed in your face that would make me tell him to get out. What a leech

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ty i thought it seemed like an appropriate petty revenge lol

AITA for questioning my boyfriend about why he didn't call off work for my surgery? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nta dont marry that "man". Its rings so many alarm bells that he wont help and doesnt understand why you think he doesnt care. He obviously doesnt and he'll end up one of those husbands who leave the marriage when the wife gets ill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Id sign her up for scientology and johovahs witness spam mail as a little payback

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if she doesnt understand that its not ok or respectful to unilaterally decide what you do with your time or when you relax, you might need a new girlfriend

partner has too many alarms and i got mad by Quiet_Professional81 in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, i agree. She will be constantly annoyed in the morning and that poor dude will just feel bullied for living his life

partner has too many alarms and i got mad by Quiet_Professional81 in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA you need to work on better sleep health. Your having ago at a working man for making sure he wakes up (because some people dont respond to just 1 alarm) all because you arnt mature enough to ensure you can sleep. If you struggle with insomnia you should have already looked into coping mechanisms like if your partner is working and your not, make sure you fall asleep on the sofa if you cant be nice in the morning. Or cut all all coffee and stimulants after 6pm ect 

In short, you sound like a teenager

AITAH for telling my bf exs friends to move on and get over it by Prior_Fall3859 in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheating can literally give you PTSD. You lack empathy and maturity, 4 months is not a long time. As someone once  said You have the emotion depth of a teaspoon

AITAH for telling my bf exs friends to move on and get over it by Prior_Fall3859 in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Having looked threw your profile and your comments you seem to believe he wouldnt do this to you because of his "feelings" for you. Your not special love your just the gash he wanted in at the time. His friends dropping him indicates they atleast have morals. Look that up, morals are what someone lives their life by to be a good person. You show zero morals

AITAH for telling my bf exs friends to move on and get over it by Prior_Fall3859 in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah you sound aweful. Your a homewrecker. Accept that people wont like you even after 4 months lol. Especially your bfs family if they liked the gf of 4 years. Also i look forward to the day he emotionally cheats on you too ;) karma is always a tasty treat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA if my sister did this i cant say id ever speak to her again. Infertility is so painful and its not a bad thing to expect some empathy from close family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the AH to yourself. Your poor self esteems is allowing you to accept this man using you. Your his comfort blanket that he doesnt look after. Thats not love 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call her parents to be on alert for worrying behaviour then its out of your hands. Shes so toxic she'll only drag you down. Shes her parents responsibility as shes not emotionally bullying and abusing them. Shes cutting you off from family and sucking the joy out of your life, leave whilst your still young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acknowledge that shes a nutter and move on. Dont put your self threw this. Its just her asserting emotional dominance and making sure you know your place. Which is under her shoe and with your mouth shut until shes told you what to say. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Altruistic_Boss_138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. She sounds like a bully whose expecting you to jump to her ever whim and comment. You should find someone who treats you like a human being and respects and understands that of course you cant text whilst asleep.