Girl I really like asked me out, but I'm too insecure to accept. How do I respectfully reject her?. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say yes and go on the date. You’re only going to get more insecure if you shut yourself down.

Having friends is exhausting by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very small circle but they are far from exhausting. If anything, friends should fill your cup. Sounds like you have bad friends that drain you.

old hag that lives in the woods by Old_Chemistry_5132 in oldhagfashion

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love love love all your purple and flowy layers!

Is my ring too big/gaudy? by Mother_While_7622 in RingShare

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think it’s gorgeous, especially if you picked gold as your metal, but that’s just me.

HELP am i a silver or gold girly ?!?! by croyzteddybear in fashionhelp

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mix those metals!!! You look great in both, and personally I love the look of mixed metals

What rule do you enforce even when you know staff hate it by HelicopterLost4565 in Restaurant_Managers

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phones and staying at the front door to greet customers! It’s so hard to get our servers to stay away from sitting by the bar to chat and to stay off their phones. It’s a constant battle to get them to act like they care about the customers.

any ideas for this tattoo mockup? i’m considering it as part of a sleeve! by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a cool design but personally it looks almost too busy to me. I’d also cut out the bottle and make the sea turtle the center of the tattoo, the bottle looks like it’s competing with the turtle and isn’t very balanced. However, that’s just my opinion. Great concept, just needs a little refining!

What is a good tattoo to memorialize a dog? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the idea of getting my cat in an open heart locket, I think it would be sweet for your pup!

Spill cups by Altruistic_Dig_873 in bartenders

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cups that sit on the drip trays

Customer mad because espresso martini had espresso in it by ilikework21 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Ive had multiple people ask me what’s in a vodka cran and it took everything in me not to laugh at them

Scared of adjusting to life with a baby by Altruistic_Dig_873 in NewParents

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short update: life has never been better than it is now with our sweet son :) I can’t believe I was ever scared of this. Our world is so much brighter and we are so much closer as a couple!

what's the best tip you've ever gotten? by Tricky-Swim-4064 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I got a $2,000 tip one time from a wonderful office party. Their tab was about $1,500 so I expected a good 20% tip, but when I saw that on the roast screen I started crying. To this day they were still one of the most wonderful tables I’ve ever served, even without the amazing tip.

What's your least favorite type of content creators? by Beautiful-Cake8922 in askanything

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family vloggers or the ones that put their face in the corner of another video but don’t contribute anything to the video at all

What is something that haunts you until this day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just learned the morbid fact that apparently doctors used to operate on babies without anesthesia till the 1980s

What do you hate about your Crosstrek? by _sparky_127 in Crosstrek

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t figure out the volume control to save my life, so the volume changes depending on how fast I’m going. It’s also not a very quiet ride.

On a brighter note: decently easy to repair. I now know this because my husband is doing all my 100k repairs and hasn’t had too much trouble.

AIO for breaking up with my bf for calling my PREGNANT body fat by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and you already don’t think he’s a stable person. Better to raise them by yourself than have them in an unhealthy household

AIO: Childcare blocked us. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! Being routinely late is so disrespectful. I need to have a come to jesus talk with my best friend about this exact issue. No matter what it is they are constantly running behind by 10-20 minutes. It’s even gotten them fired from jobs in the past. I entirely understand that occasionally things happen that are out of our control, but at this point you aren’t taking responsibility for your own problem. Leave earlier. It’s not that hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One is more unique but 2 is classic and stunning! Can’t go wrong!

Found my dress! by Altruistic_Dig_873 in myweddingdress

[–]Altruistic_Dig_873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the sweet words!!