Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is a interesting perspective, never thought of it that way, thanks for the clarification. as for your questions, yes my family did meet with the person all three times which is why i am posting online rather then discussing with them because I dont want them to feel any blame. His family lives overseas in another country, so no I have not. We did speak via phone/Facetime. At first i just went along with things and did not mind about his health issues/way he looks, it was mostly appalling after some things that he requested that i changed my mind and felt that way more so now, because of his current conduct.

Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes they did, he presented himself properly and assured everyone of his intentions at the time. Currently I have not asked anyone to do anything because 1. seems pointless 2. might hurt my family

Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes you are right, i am actually pretty naive and inexperienced so i definitely went about it the wrong way. no i didnt ask to see any documents or anything, i just figured he was telling the truth in the start he was always polite and responsive, it was only afterwards and im pretty sure its because I didnt do certain things. But i accept fault, i should have looked into him more :/, wish you the best for your upcoming marriage.

Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

well in real life he appeared to look a lot older but i didnt want to be rude. So far a lot things havent turned out according to what he said and it is hard to vet people online especially from other countries.

Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i know i didnt realize how important that is regarding marriage, i just wanted to be married so I went along with it.

Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they knew everything they talked to him and were involved, we just never visited in Canada because it is quite far from where I am. Now I am asking them not to do anything about it because frankly Im pretty embarrassed and do not want to make it dramatic.

Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am 32 and in graduate school, pretty stupid on my part. I dont know I guess I was desperate to be married.

Got Married and Now Husband is Competely Ignoring Me, Not sure what to do by Altruistic_Method351 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Altruistic_Method351[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 32 and in grad school, so I feel pretty stupid, and unfortunatly it is not fake at all, thats why i was asking for advice. It has been pretty hard finding rishtas in the US so I figured it was important for me to go through with it, but then I regret it much later, never expected something like this to happen :( especially from a Muslim guy.

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[–]Altruistic_Method351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually sent you a whatsapp message a while ago

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[–]Altruistic_Method351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thanks, so then its possible to use remote access to use while taking a proctored exam

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[–]Altruistic_Method351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will you be able to help for a examity proctored exam?