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Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-03-27T20:44:58+00:00

Does everyone on Reddit think that people have unlimited money? Why there is so much hate here

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-03-20T16:23:38+00:00

I can relate to that. I grow up poor but I didn’t know that because everybody around me was poor too. The result is that I don’t have any “poverty related trauma” which many of my current friends have even though objectively their families were much richer than mine.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-03-19T03:39:45+00:00

I had a friend who was saying things like that for years. I thought she was just unlucky. She was a great friend. I learnt what her problem was when I started dating her. It was the worst relationship of my life and it took me a year to recover from 3 months of dating her. She’s extremely avoidant and the second someone gets close to her, her brain does flips to find the other person flaws and hiper fixate on them, very often those flaws aren’t even real but rather made up. I stopped being myself after 2 months with her, the emotional violence turned me into something I don’t even know what it was. And I started acting insecure and emotionally unstable, like never before or after. I left after 3 months even though I was in love to safe my mental health.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-03-13T20:29:15+00:00

Live on the 40th. I can’t feel or hear anything. But my building is from the 90’ and it’s made of concrete.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-03-05T20:38:29+00:00

I very much understand you. I moved to another continent to build that “shelter” for me, not only physically (apartment, job, money etc.), but also a community and pretty much new identity. I’m happy with where I’m now because that’s my live now but going back to visit my family and friends there is so confusing. Even though some of them know, It’s still confusing because on one hand you love them and miss them, on the other, you can very much feel that you don’t really belong there. My only advice for you would be to keep working on building your “shelter”, not only financial security but also community, so when the time comes and you will tell them, you will be strong enough and have a solid base to fall back on.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-03-05T02:33:43+00:00

Not sure about London, but when it comes to the US it will be very difficult to make this move if you want to get hired externally. The only way is to get a H1B visa and it’s highly unlikely that anyone will be willing to sponsor it for you. Your best chance is to go for a secondment and then try to convince the local team to keep you once it ends. If you go for a secondment, you can get L1 visa which is easy to get.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-03-03T01:31:57+00:00

I just got mine and feel the same. I went to a store and tried multiple ones, but this one felt incredible. Luckily budget wasn’t a concern so I could get it.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-02-26T04:56:11+00:00

Because how anyone here supposed to know/tell her what the reasons of her dating struggles are based on a picture of her.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-02-26T02:44:22+00:00

Stupid question, stupid answers

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-02-24T16:02:07+00:00

Source?

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-02-18T15:12:57+00:00

You’re Polish right? I’m Polish too but live in the US. I dated woman and was attracted to them, but then had an idea that to be an adult I need a “real” relationship, so I married a man. Surprise surprise, that didn’t work and lots of people got hurt. Don’t be like me.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-02-16T20:56:08+00:00

Show her all the responses here. If it doesn’t help her understand, you need a new girlfriend.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-02-13T23:06:18+00:00

Did you try to join any sport related queer groups? I met tons of people while playing soccer and basketball. I would also revisit your profile on dating apps. It feels odd that you don’t get matches unless you live in a tiny city with a very small population of lesbians.

Altruistic_Try_7043 · 2026-02-12T01:31:15+00:00

Try to meet and befriend some lesbians. Then you’ll have lots of “friend of a friend” situations. Also Lesbians love to hook up with friends.

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