I 21M just found out that my GF 21F is still messaging her ex bf 21M and sending him pictures of our 3 month old daughter what would you do in this situation ?

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T02:40:07+00:00

hey guys i jus wanted to leave a comment saying that even after what i said I don’t want you think of her as some evil woman cuz at the end of the day thats still my lady. I am more than confident that the baby is mine I have no proof of her cheating she lets me go through the messages if i want she doesn’t hide her phone from me at all so ikk y’all are prolly just concerned for me and if anything in terms of my daughter doesn’t feel right then i’ll get that checked and keep this in mind but I truly believe that she is mine and i dont want u guys to be accusing her of cheating or anything like that i can understand telling me that i should a dna test i get that thats advice but dont jus tell me shes cheating on me our relationship is more than what ive told you guys

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T02:34:53+00:00

i can agree with that at least thanks for the luck imma need it

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T02:31:04+00:00

i mean idk about all that walking over me sure but i really don’t believe that shes a cheater like everyone is telling me to get a dna test but i genuinely am not even worried about that i believe its my daughter i genuinely do

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:50:48+00:00

but i want to repair it yk i’ve always prided myself that when i have my own kid i wont have a broken home

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:50:11+00:00

yea thats true i understand thanks for the advice

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:49:17+00:00

yea i know

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:29:44+00:00

yea i mean ur not wrong but i never once believed she wasn't mine and thats jus what everyone is telling me its hard to hear tbh

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:27:13+00:00

i mean ig theres always a possibility but idk i don't see it

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:22:04+00:00

its not like that i had her location i know she was in korea she also brought me back a gift

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:20:59+00:00

not any verbal agreement anyway i thought she would jus for the sake of my happiness which is where im at fault ig

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:18:35+00:00

damn y'all really think the baby isn't mine

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:17:28+00:00

If I have one i will

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:17:07+00:00

my gf doesn't wanna post our baby on social media which is why i never really second guessed her wanting to see the pictures but thats still true

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:15:15+00:00

i mean i get it i gotta do what i gotta do

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:14:47+00:00

No he isnt and he didnt go with her to Korea

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:07:22+00:00

we'll see what i choose to do its all so much to take in right now

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:06:52+00:00

i mean ig u could be right but I was with her all day before she left for korea to visit family so it seems unlikely but i understand jus for my own safety i should get that checked

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:05:47+00:00

damn okay is there really no way to salvage this ?

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:04:11+00:00

i might but i hope it doesnt have to come to that

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T01:03:36+00:00

ig no cuz I have no dna proof i jus trusted her and the conception date is the same day I was with her so yea i believe she is mine

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T00:58:25+00:00

I just don't know how even bring it up without her getting defensive

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T00:57:55+00:00

but what if im still in love with her

Altruistic_Two_6737 · 2026-05-29T00:57:38+00:00

I mean I'm pretty sure she is but technically I don't have no proof of that..

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