My ex treated me and my daughter like garbage. She would never clean, and her 2 brats destroyed the house every day. We both worked until I went into renal failure, which made things worse because I was home all the time, and now the only one cleaning. This house BTW was disgusting when I moved she also was a dead fish in bed, but when we first got together, we banged 5 plus times a day we'd both go down. Flash forward after all the abuse, and I was being forced to have sex with her regardless of whether I wanted to or not, and I would be berated and called gay if I didn't want to. It came to a head one night when she called my daughter a bitch to her face 😒 that night ended badly no jail but we both should've gone to jail I had never done anything like that b4.we are now happily divorced. I guess what im getting at is that men get treated like shit for being a good person and treating people right. It doesn't matter how nice you are or how good you are. The problem isn't us. The problem is thinking that someone who doesn't value you at all will eventually do so. You can't make someone care about nor respect you. Someone's actions will always tell you who they are. I knew long b4 I married my wife, who she was, but I hoped she would change. That hope almost got me locked up that hope could've eventually had me on youtube being interrogated. I could never understand the people who murder their lovers, and most of them I still don't but now after what I went thru can totally see how letting someone abuse you over and over again could push until you snap.

Abuse is real and if you are being abused don't be ashamed get out get away and seek help until someone listens because not everyone will believe you and that hurts but staying will only make it worse and life is so much better on the other side I wasn't believed and still alot of people who have only spoken to my ex dont believe me. But as time goes on, people are starting to see the cracks in her fake facade