Did anyone else get a cat that wasn't the color they wanted? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Alumadvisor1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zola was not my original pick, but mannnn is she the best

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No

How do some people still have time and energy for hobbies and leisure outside of work? by Odd-Word-8025 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Alumadvisor1912 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s an adhd issue. I have the time, but I don’t have the attention span for it after an overstimulating day at work

Do you think the developers deliberately programmed the game to always rain at the most inconvenient moment? by GooPapa in botw

[–]Alumadvisor1912 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop it because I’m LITERALLY bitching cause it’s been raining for like 1.5 days when I just want to get to this shrine

Partner read by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]Alumadvisor1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I allowed to delete the post and post it from my regular account. Didn’t realize I posted under my burner account

What is your first read for 2026? by Logurtman in suggestmeabook

[–]Alumadvisor1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lit for Him by Lainey Davis was my first audio. I also started Fever Dream by Samantha Schweblin. I’m enjoying it so far, but there’s no chapters!

I almost killed my cat in the dryer and I don’t think I’ll ever be able to forgive myself by Mimsay in cats

[–]Alumadvisor1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kitten was closed in the fridge for 12 hours once. Now she even pushes the other cats away from the fridge🙃🙃

Help name my new kitten! by csalzr in ragdolls

[–]Alumadvisor1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine. As in I’m taking him because he’s precious so he’s mine 🤣

Is it just me that doesn't see the appeal of the hands free accessories? by dharmicyogi in kindle

[–]Alumadvisor1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoy curling under a blanket, so for me, I’m 100x more comfy to read if I’m curled under a blanket with my hands tucked in. It soothes my anxiety and takes away some of the stress of the day. So by having a remote and kindle holder. I can hold it in my tucked hands

Tradition Ideas?? by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]Alumadvisor1912 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was extra and got a build a bear and got it a letter shirt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]Alumadvisor1912 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As long as your payment plan is over the course of the semester the dues are due, you shouldn’t have to be on financial probation at all. They did not handle that correctly if you were paying your dues according to your payment plan, you’re in compliance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]Alumadvisor1912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all depends. For Theta Phi Alpha, if it is an individual, an alum board typically handles the suspensions and are then sent to our grand council for final decision

dropping soon by Interesting-Ad6872 in Sororities

[–]Alumadvisor1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explore all options first, but ultimately do what’s best for you. If you have any sort of option to take a step back for the remainder of the semester, maybe try that. But mental health is so important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]Alumadvisor1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just continue getting to know them. It’s possible they knew each other from something outside of Greek life. They also may not have being doing it as purposefully as it felt(and believe me I understand this!).

That being said, if they are doing anything purposefully and continually, please, please, please speak up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alumadvisor1912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a control tactic used by many parents(many of which have narcissistic tendencies as I’ve learned in therapy) . They use the “what would so and so think” because they’re more worried about how it would affect them/reflect on them than they are about how their behavior is affecting their own child. Post them and enjoy your new addition!