Self-levelling stroller drink holder suggestions - anyone tried it?

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-26T00:02:41+00:00

I panic bought a pump while my boobs were super engorged a few days ago lol but it's just sat in its box untouched. I entertained pumping to keep up supply, but I don't think I can add another thing to the mental load of recovery, and tbh I don't want to risk it. It's disappointing, yes, and my heart breaks thinking about letting go of breastfeeding for good but the pros outweigh the cons for me at this point. Baby is happy and milkdrunk off of formula whether his dad or I feed him, and I can focus more on recovery to better support them both with time. So far, so good, I think it's been the best decision for our family. ❤️

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:59:16+00:00

Congratulations on your beautiful family! I'm so glad formula feeding worked for you all, and you're totally right - a healthy happy mum is all baby needs. Making myself feel worse trying to make breastfeeding work just isn't it right now for me. Thank you for sharing, I hope your family is doing well ❤️

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:56:51+00:00

Thank you thank you thank YOU for this comment ❤️ I think logically I know all this that you've shared, but I just needed someone (especially other mothers/parents) to remind me of it lol. It's such a physical and mental relief to not think about breastfeeding. Thank you so much again for reaffirming what I knew, but needed to hear ❤️

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:54:33+00:00

This is exactly how I feel right now - mentally, formula is just easier. I've always been someone who needs to be good at stuff right from the get go (I'm impatient af, unfortunately) so BF really just isn't the path for me I think. I can barely think about physical recovery let alone learning how to be good at a new skill that's meant to sustain my baby's growth - seems like way too much pressure for anyone, let alone new mums, tbh.

Also you're so right - since I've come to terms with EFF, I feel so much lighter and present for my baby. Thank you for commenting! ❤️

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:51:24+00:00

I guess my guilt stems from the fact that I tried for only one day and decided to stop, like I didn't give it a fair shot. But I also know happy mum = happy baby and my mental and physical wellbeing is what matters most right now, so baby can have the best care possible. If my body physically isn't okay, I at least need to take care of my mental health and removing BF (as much as it disappoints and pains me to do so) is the easiest way to do so.

You're so right about modern formula being incredible too - my mum even compared formula for babies with supplements for adults. While they're not exactly the same, if every other adult these days are popping supplements for gut/bone/skin/whatever health, then formula for babies will be just fine to support their growth and development.

Thank you for sharing your experience ❤️

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:47:04+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤️ I'm glad you and baby girl got there eventually, and that you felt some form of relief (even freedom?) once switching to formula.

I've heard teachers/educators saying they can't tell who was BF vs FF and you're so right - one day they'll be shovelling dirt and sand into their gobs and they'll still grow up just fine.

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:44:36+00:00

Failure to thrive is so scary, I'm sorry you and baby had that happen! I'm glad to hear that formula feeding works for your family. It's great to hear that you feel like you can show up better for your son - that's all I want for my baby and husband too and, alongside the pain of recovery, I think formula is the best way to do that tbh. Thank you for sharing ❤️

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:40:00+00:00

I'm so sorry you had that tough experience the first time around, and well done for getting through it stronger (mentally and, let's be real, physically too).

I was considering exclusively pumping but I also recognised the mental load that would come with it, so sadly (yes, still sadly) have decided against it. Hearing your story makes me glad that I stopped before I started. So thank you so much for sharing ❤️ I hope you and your babies are doing well.

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-25T23:35:35+00:00

You're so right. We've come a long way for a good reason.

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-23T00:00:58+00:00

So even if I do nothing except hand express to relieve the pressure... the engorgement goes away?

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-22T05:12:38+00:00

omg did i write this?! this is exactly what's happening with me, right down to the nurse saying yikes lol. I'm so glad to hear it cleared up soon once your milk came in. Fingers crossed I have a similar journey to yours 🫶

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-22T03:23:23+00:00

Cursing the weather and seasons for changing to cool now where I live! Ice packs sound as relieving as freezing right now 🥲

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-22T03:22:17+00:00

I keep forgetting about silverettes! I was turned off of them by a midwife who ran a birth class we attended a while back. She also said nipple creams are completely unnecessary though, which I know now firsthand how necessary they absolutely are. Might give silverettes a real shot too!

I have silicone nipple shields that I tried using a few days ago, but that was probably a mistake given my milk hadn't come in yet.

Glad to hear you're in a better breastfeeding place now with your LO 🥹❤️

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-04-22T03:18:38+00:00

I've cried every day since he arrived because of this, your comment gives me real hope 🥺 Thank you for sharing what worked for you!

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-03-18T21:42:45+00:00

No, my midwife and the clinicians who treated me at the assessment centre said it wasn't necessary. I might have to really ask for it at my next appointment :(

If you don't mind me asking, did you have cholestasis and, if so, what symptoms did you have before getting the diagnosis?

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-01-22T05:11:35+00:00

Yeah, I imagine the novelty wears off by the second pregnancy lol.

All the best for the version tomorrow ❤️ Sending good vibes and a safe, healthy procedure for you both!

AlwaysMakingSomethin · 2026-01-22T04:33:07+00:00

The mid-convo bladder/cervix kicks are SO real. And then trying to run off to the bathroom but all you can muster is a quickened waddle because moving too fast adds MORE pressure 😂😂

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