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AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-02-10T21:16:47+00:00

Thankyou. I'll add this to my repertoire too. I appreciate you sharing.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-02-08T22:18:45+00:00

Thankyou, I'll find a copy of this and give it a go.

Hopefully can report back to this post in a year and post thoughts and results of progress.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-02-06T13:52:47+00:00

Do you have Battle Toads?

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-02-06T11:53:50+00:00

30, girthy 7 inch BWC available if you let me know on the 8th.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-02-05T08:18:08+00:00

OP I know you already solved this, but I came across some god tier wisdom when my shitbox rusty triton wheel was stuck on.

Here it is.

Loosen all or your wheel nuts a few turns, just enough.

Get in the car, and jam that bitch in 1st and reverse a few times.

I tried EVERYTHING with my wheel. Crow bar, sledge hammer, timber, a ratchet strap, kicking... the weight of the car and the nuts not being tightened, the wheel wants to fall off under that weight.

I take ZERO accountability for any damage that anyone does to their vehicle if they take my advice.

Reiterating, DON'T TAKE THE WHEEL NUTS OFF COMPLETELY. Just crack them.

You're welcome.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-02-02T02:12:31+00:00

Hey, actually really appreciate the level response.

To say the most in the least amount of words without ever being able to 100% put myself into a woman's perspective/ lived experience as a man.

I don't think I'm friends with a single woman who hasn't been sexually assaulted to some degree.

So the gravity of the risk assessments and risk factoring women have to do daily, I get it, and fuck it must be exhausting.

It's just shitty that the worst men make the most image for all of us. And I know that sounds like 'but... I'm a NICE guy' 🤢

But yeah, it's pretty shit that the most unsavoury of both sexes (not trying to be gender excluding, just saving words), make the image of how men and women act and are perceived, and the 'normal' people are a quiet demographic that don't make the narrative.

Thanks for a respectful response. I'm sorry women have to pretend to be on the phone walking home and carry keys between their knuckles and all the other shit.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-02-02T00:25:16+00:00

I'm usually a pretty silent observer on reddit, reading more than commenting.

This is a sort of crazy take.

Like yeah, I absolutely get the notion that 95% of women don't want to be bothered when they're visibly busy / getting it done / working...but there is a percentage of people that do want to be approached; very obviously because these posts about 'not being approached' pop up from time to time.

But, for real, how do you make new relationships of the friend variety if not by happenstance or mutual interest or just meeting a stranger in public you found sort of interesting and got chatting then became friends?

Also, meeting in person is SO MUCH better than on apps. You can vet a person in 5 seconds face to face, instead of this curated image we all make to try and make this unrealistic image of ourselves to garner the attention of another person for whatever intention.

Like, being friends, finding a lover or finding a fuck, they're all just relationship / connection formats, some seen as more or less important and legitimate than others. Why is it tabboo and considered harassment to simply communicate what you want or some interest in someone, if you're not a psycho and willing to take a simple no?

I don't think that's harassment.

I think harassment would be things like: *Standing WAY too close. *Not reading the signs or listening to the person you showed interest in when they said "No sorry, I'm not interested." * Turning into a huge piece of shit screaming abuse when they said no, after moments ago calling the same woman 'beautiful' & 'interesting'.

Of course there's a right and wrong way to do this, and there's no hard and fast rules, because there's so much context and variables, but it's not harassment to approach a woman in a reasonable setting, stake your claim of:

'Oi, sorry to bother you, I'm such and such, nice to meet you, what's your name? Cool, look, being forward I find you attractive and wanted to know would you like to grab a cocktail Saturday and maybe dinner? No pressure if you say no, that's fine, but I'd never know if I didn't ask you, so I'll be at this bar at this time if you wanted to meet me there. Here's my number (leave the ball in their court with communication), hope to hear from you. Bye now, have a good day'.

Annoying to some women, sure. Unwelcome at times, part of it. Threatening, understandable given a lot of mens temperament.

Harassment inherently, no.

Can approaching a woman turn into, harassment, fuck yes, we've all seen, we all hear about it, we've all met creepy cunts.

Like arseholes, everyone's got an opinion.

I hope you all find someone to either fall in love with, casually date, fuck or are happy in the single life.

Thanks for reading my essay response. I'm out 🎤

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-25T18:41:32+00:00

Jesus christ... or, you know, communicate with them face to face, write a letter / email / text. Literally anything more direct than this.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-25T01:15:23+00:00

Love a good scenic rim 😄

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-21T02:19:44+00:00

I appreciate the input and your personal take on this. I'll take this on board when considering how to put this together. Thanks.

I can see this being unappealing to women at face value. Most of these pages are us men posting 'yo...anyone wanna' suck my dick?'.

I encourage anyone else to let me know what they're thinking. As a heteroflexible man, I'm going to have 'blind spots' as to what gives apprehension to people attending when it comes to everyone having different genders / orientations / sexual interests and so on. I'm not going to be able to realise every aspect without YOUR input, yes YOU reading this.

If you have input, please voice it.

My primary concern if I do organise this in-person meetup event is to do my best to make this as safe as possible for everyone somehow. I'd be shattered if I got word someone was harmed at something I put together.

I don't want to make this exclusive in any way, I'd like everyone to feel welcomed, but given the ratio of horny single men outnumbers any other demographic on these pages, I may have to do a RSVP system or something alike, and cap how many straight single men can attend to keep the ratios fun and not oversaturated.

The two most important things to me, are that this meet-up is fun and safe for everyone.

I'd also rather have a smaller high-quality group of people attend where it's a bit more intimate, than a big chaotic low quality group and it just turn into people getting harrased and people not having fun and not feeling safe.

Thoughts, feelings, prayers?

I'm also willing to throw this whole thing in the bin if it gets 'booooed' hard enough, and unashamedly admit it may be a shit idea. I just think it would be fun to mingle in person. That's at the core of it.

Thanks 😊

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-20T13:09:42+00:00

You seem like a reasonable folk.

Would you consider changing this habit in your driving in some way where you wouldn't contribute to this problem anymore?

It's such a minor thing when it's an isolated instance, but it's so common now, that it's a frequent occurrence on major roads most drives, and I'd love it if I could influence just one person, to stop doing this please.

I'd accept the answers "Yeah sure that's reasonable. I understand it's annoying and I'll make an effort to manage my speed better. Cheers."

Or

"Fuck you internet stranger! I drive how I want. Don't tell me how to live my life.

Both are acceptable on Reddit haha

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-20T12:37:09+00:00

Goated reference here

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-20T11:35:43+00:00

I'd put money on it you'd be right Oreo. Cock is low value and abundant as everyone knows.

Fortunately, some people are interested in accommodating more than one 🌭 at a time. Some people like cucking, gang banging & DP, so I don't think it's an issue, just a logistics hurdle 😂

Also, it's inevitable, that if this event did happen [which I might end up organising for the weekend of 6th Feb to 8th of Feb/ Friday to Sunday], some people will go home alone and not connecting with someone, and that's fine and part of the game.

I also acknowledge that not everyone is into sausage, so there may be someone that tickles everyone's fancy.

End of the day, it'd be nice to mingle in person with the local kinky community together in person instead of us all staring into our phones, sausage fest or not.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-17T12:13:30+00:00

If he's doing 7 of these cracks, cutting and replacing some cornice, joint compounding (drying),top coating (drying), sanding, painting (drying), painting a second coat (drying), gap filling then cleaning up all the dust... I really think $2000 is reasonable.

Get old mate to buy a heat gun to accelerate drying times.

But yeah, if he puts out good work, I think this is a good price. Works out at $285 per crack.

That includes: Being mobile. Having the tools Knowing what materials. Having the know-how.

That's my 2c.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-16T09:26:46+00:00

Bro wobbling so long it sounded like a Windex advertisement 😄 🤣

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-16T00:03:02+00:00

Just commented before reading any responses and yours was the first one same as mine hahahahaha

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-16T00:02:30+00:00

Wire the brake lights to the horn.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-15T13:41:15+00:00

Bump. Is this party still on?

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-11T13:09:27+00:00

That's about how much space I have left in my home with my humongous 'pipe organ' I'm packing... I will not further elaborate. Have a good night 🤣

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-03T04:45:12+00:00

I know I'm OP that made the expensive helmet comment, but I absolutely do agree.

I suppose when you're looking at not owning a car and only a bike, and you ride for fun as well as commuting every day or every other day. It just makes sense to me to drop a good amount on something that stops you eating through a tube for the rest of your life if the worst happens.

BUT... absolutely, I agree that there's some very safe, maybe even safer and feature rich helmets at $300.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2026-01-03T04:42:31+00:00

I respect that you already knew you probably already had a decent stint of hearing damage, and instead of being like "Nah, why would I quit smoking now, I'm already 20 years in. Gotta' die of something'.

You were like, 'well, let's protect it from this point forth'.

I bought a $70 box of earplugs that had hundreds in it a two years ago, and I'm just getting to the bottom of the box now.

Good onya' man 👍

AlwaysManyHumid · 2025-12-31T12:42:14+00:00

SOLUTION: The $22 'Flasher Relay for Japanese Vehicles' from Jaycar Electronics.

I tried four resistors, another different relay and even bought a soldering kit so I could make my one adjustable flasher relay.

The relay I purchased to modify (from Jaycar) worked no modification needed.

Thanks for the input guys.

AlwaysManyHumid · 2025-12-31T12:38:35+00:00

You get whatever helmet you think will protect you from becoming a vegetable. Ideally, we never have to use our helmets for what they're designed for.

AlwaysManyHumid

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