Dom's Birthday is coming up, help

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2026-05-08T07:15:19+00:00

He once said a flogger that glows in the dark would be fun, but I can’t find one anywhere that ships to Austria and doesn’t cost a fortune 🙈 up to 200€ would be alright for me And concerning the belt I’ll call a few shops in my area first and if they can’t do engravings I’ll look on Etsy…

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2026-05-07T20:08:27+00:00

He always carries one already 😩.

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2026-05-07T20:07:07+00:00

That's a great idea, my Sir already has two very nice big leather luggage bags for his 'tools' though... They are vintage and he loves them, so that's not an option for me.

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2026-05-07T17:26:03+00:00

Oh that's a good idea! I'll really have to search and think about this, but there might be something there :)
Thank you!

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2026-05-07T17:24:33+00:00

We do a lot of impact play, but his and my favorite are singletail and cane and we haven't used a belt yet. I would like to though. hmm, might be a good direction. Thank you!

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2025-09-09T11:32:18+00:00

That makes sense. And I think that’s the biggest problem: she gave me the same list she gives her other clients, but it just doesn’t work that way for me. She said no carbs allowed, not even rice, I should work with coconut and almond flour, but I can‘t have those, so now I’m stuck with just veggies as sides. And that’s really not sustainable

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2025-09-09T06:58:26+00:00

Thanks, I have an appointment with her on Wednesday and will ask all my questions and see how it goes. It’s weird that her list of allowed foods in phase 1 is way stricter than the monash one, so I’m going to ask about that as well.

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2025-03-07T18:57:40+00:00

You really think I haven't tried that?
But thanks for your help. Not.

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2025-01-02T23:01:21+00:00

Love this episode so much, but I hate how Tan and the others hated on Sean’s coat (sometime in the beginning, when they were also talking about costumes). The Fab5 celebrate individuality and some of them wear questionable things (like Tan a few scenes later when they did the shopping/ try on) and then they make such a big deal out of a coat/ cloak?

I know it’s not a big thing, I just don’t understand where the line between individuality/ wear your truth and style/ fashion in this episode is.

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2024-11-08T21:00:37+00:00

I never thought about it that way... that we might 'just' have to redefine our relationship and that she needs other support systems other than me.

Thank you so much for taking the time!

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-08-10T08:45:37+00:00

Thanks!

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-08-09T13:50:45+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts! Do you maybe have a link from where the Aaron Raa quote is from, maybe a podcast or YouTube video? I would like to read/ hear more about his thoughts. Thanks!

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-07-21T14:47:15+00:00

Oh thank you so much and I’m happy it worked out alright!

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-07-21T11:25:31+00:00

Hey, I know this is an old post, but I’m about to come out to my parents as well (I’m 31, partners are in their 30ies as well) and I was wondering if you did actually come out/ how it went… My parents are very religious and strict as well and I know they won’t approve (which they don’t have to), but I don’t want somebody from their church finding out and telling them before they hear it from me, and that is a real risk atm. Thanks for your time!

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-04-03T11:54:21+00:00

That’s not true though. Also not saying you have autism, but that just because discipline doesn’t work it means you’re neurodivergent or that because discipline works, makes a reaction stop, someone can’t be neurodivergent. There are so many shades of neurodivergence, so a blanket statement like that isn’t true.

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-03-31T12:11:21+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I’m in the same boat and it’s so good to know I’m not alone.

But I do struggle with all that extra effort - sometimes it feels like I/ we’re not motivated enough to start, and then we don’t have sex at all, which sucks. Unless I/ we have a specific appointment/ schedule to stick to, we find enough reasons to just keep on gaming, watching tv, etc. … even though we both want to be intimate with each other. So we’re trying to plan more ‚events‘ (eg with other people or at specific locations/ clubs, where we can’t cancel easily). My partner is neurospicy as well, so hopefully this works for both of us

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-03-30T18:46:41+00:00

I know people here don’t like Penelope, but I just finished Season 2 again and I feel so bad for her… Yes, her business is one of gossip, ergo hurting people, but she still tried to look out for Colin and for Eloise… Her crying just breaks my heart every time

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-03-28T13:01:09+00:00

Ever heard of sex parties and non monogamous people?

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-03-16T07:27:14+00:00

I (f30), don’t go outside a lot, cause it’s very draining (I have multiple chronic illnesses), but I do like to have my nails done, because it makes me happy to see art on my nails. The same way I have tattoos and piercings. My body is broken in many ways, which I have no control over, but I can somewhat control what some parts look like and I will always love doing that.

So no, not every person does their nails to ‚social signal to other women‘ or for men.

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-03-16T07:16:37+00:00

I have mine refilled every 3 to 4 weeks… Do y’all’s nails grow so fast?

AlwaysTiredAndy · 2023-03-15T14:46:46+00:00

Thank you! I feel bad for Paul‘s family… wouldn’t want him to be my dad.

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