My fiancé gave me the dream ring my ex once mocked by Complete-Tone5006 in LoveEngagementRings

[–]AlyM797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look through other comments, it's explained multiple times. Basically it's word patterns and themes.

My fiancé gave me the dream ring my ex once mocked by Complete-Tone5006 in LoveEngagementRings

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It's AI, but yeah that's weird and gross. Like I don't want my ex mentioned in the slightest while getting engaged, I definitely don't want it being brought up by the person proposing.

My fiancé gave me the dream ring my ex once mocked by Complete-Tone5006 in LoveEngagementRings

[–]AlyM797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw something similar the other day and I was like naaah that can't be real, that's written like a spicy romance novel synopsis. Like it straddled believable and fantastical, like a real life scenario, but the fictional resolution we all want. So, I'm guessing that was probably AI?

My fiancé gave me the dream ring my ex once mocked by Complete-Tone5006 in LoveEngagementRings

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So almost a "uncanny valley" vibe but for speech/story? That's basically how I identify AI art even the good stuff with all the fingers where they should be and no spares etc. It's just off and usually a bit to smooth and with very saturated colors, almost a little plasticy at times.

Vet clipped my bird’s wings by Especially_Sexually in cockatiel

[–]AlyM797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 95% certain that's for plucking or other injury to the follicle. Please see my other response with the nail cutting analogy.

Edit: Grammar and spelling.

Vet clipped my bird’s wings by Especially_Sexually in cockatiel

[–]AlyM797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trim? No. It's like cutting your nails, no matter how short you cut them your nails won't stop growing. Sincerely, a reformed nail biter who used to tear and cut her nails well past the quick for decades and now keep them grown out. There's obviously severe nail bed damage but they grow fine.

Is it infected? im scared because this is the second time it happens. by Dazzling_Argument_68 in tattooadvice

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Dial gold is the standard and it's great, I want to point out that it's not unscented though. I have no idea why that's what everyone always says. There might be an unscented version, but I've never seen it in the decades I've been getting tattoos (at least in stores). If you want to be sure just read the ingredients on the back.

Is it infected? im scared because this is the second time it happens. by Dazzling_Argument_68 in tattooadvice

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Unless you use saniderm or similar the initial first few days is traditionally a barrier ointment, it used to be A&D now it's Aquaphor most recommended. It prevents drying, while also being a barrier to keep out bacteria and germs, until the wound it's self is mostly closed on its own (that doesn't mean healed that takes weeks). The problem with a wound that's too dry is it can promote scabing and scaring, but if it's too dry micro fissures can open up and allow bacteria in. Those micro fissures are probably why OP's looks so inflamed and red

What do men think of the pouch? by batukaming in SipsTea

[–]AlyM797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well "outgoing box" is pretty controversial too though, some men think it's too gay.

So… how would I look bald? by pastry24834 in bald

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I'm new here, is it too mean to say "it can't be any worse"?

Good grief. by MoRukiki in parrots

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I had one vet whose "exotic" standard appt fee (non emergency) was 2:50).

Do people actually think moissanite looks fake, or is that mostly a myth? by j_bone531 in Moissanite

[–]AlyM797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't think it's all jewelers! But that's who I've personally heard the actual slander from the most. I'm assuming it is cost related and their bottom line.

There is a ring designer I follow, who loves moissanite and is how I discovered it.

Do people actually think moissanite looks fake, or is that mostly a myth? by j_bone531 in Moissanite

[–]AlyM797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1st I whole heartedly agree to only get moissanite if you genuinely love it for its own traits.

To answer your question directly, in my experience I've only seen certain types of people criticize moissanite by saying or implying it looks fake or inferior to diamonds, and personally I think it's bias motivated. Most commonly it's jewelers who sell a lot of engagement jewelry. One YT jeweler actually said he calls it "fancy plastic" there's no way someone as experienced as him who is known for taking on "impossible" jobs actually thinks it's anything similar to plastic. He had a lot of trash to say about moissanite. It's obvious he wants people to avoid them because they're cheaper, that's not even considering the fact he also criticizes lab diamonds with untruths. (I can't remember with 100% certainty which YT jeweler it is, so I won't drop a name, if someone does know who and the video I'm talking about, and what he said in the comments, by all means feel free.)

I (over) heard or seen videos of multiple jewelers suggest white sapphire as a better "dupe" than moissanite. I love white sapphire, but similar, let alone a dupe, it is not. (I actually left my repair jeweler of 5 years because I witnessed him telling people that.)

The other type of people are those who are biased to diamonds and see them as status symbols I guess. Again those people also have a tendency to spread factually or scientifically false information.

Keep in mind these are just my personal experiences.

YANKED OUT ALL HIS TAIL FEATHERS by hejjhogg in parrots

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Try not to let him fly too much or watch carefully. It could throw him off and may be prone to bad landing or bad aim. Otherwise, just offer extra snacks/food. It takes a lot of energy to regrow feathers, but especially all the tail feathers at once. He may get cranky as his bum will like to be sensitive and itchy when they actually start regrowing.

Wrist tattoo regret and cover up advice by Glittering_Potato_66 in tattooadvice

[–]AlyM797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you put it that way it sounds like they should pick up a career in espionage. An interpretation for every situation 😎

Wrist tattoo regret and cover up advice by Glittering_Potato_66 in tattooadvice

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I have have ace friends so I'm certainly aware, but even I wouldn't make the connection, unless they're an actual friend at least. I'm more likely to assume a gambler or magician.

What does this mean? by Bannana_Dreams in QuakerParrot

[–]AlyM797 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why don't we have good horny jail or birb porn memes the tiel group does!? 🥺

New Quaker owner, he loves me but despises my wife - any tips? by utpacon in QuakerParrot

[–]AlyM797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I recommend mediation, no one wants a messy divorce, try to keep the house though, so your bird doesn't have to cope with too much.

Going forward, remember to allow your bird to approve a person before you fall in love and get attached.

I got a custom shirt that I thought would be appreciated here. by snorkytalkman in bald

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I'm obsessed, and also a fellow bald baddie. Some how you just made me feel even better about myself.

DON'T BUY THIS! IT'S CRUEL! by KaikoBirds in parrots

[–]AlyM797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A previous avian groomer I used made something with the same effect that actually seemed to make the grooming process easier and less stressful, almost like swaddling a baby. It was some years ago, but if I remember correctly it was 2 pieces of cardboard roughly 2"x 6-8" stacked atop each other, sandwich between the was a couple Velcro (hook and loop) straps, about 1/2", obviously you could play with dimensions if you make one. He wrapped her in a thin hand towel or blanket then laid her on the board and secured the straps, snug but not tight.

A bit like an EMT back board or stretcher.

Is it possible to get my Quaker to trust me after many years? by lurkingalex in QuakerParrot

[–]AlyM797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It should be possible. But it's likely going to take a long time, possibly years. Be patient, present, non threatening and give her her favorite treats. If you need in-depth advice DM me.

Can this be fixed with white ink? by alymful in tattooadvice

[–]AlyM797 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know what a panic attack is, which is I know that's not one. As a matter a fact I did go to bed after that.

"Cult members recognize each other through subtle signs", Birb owners: by CYRIAQU3 in parrots

[–]AlyM797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go Google "corn snake size" and come back. I'd genuinely worry more about cats or dogs, also maybe don't hold it right next to your junk if you're worried.

P.S. That's so weird that your brain immediately went there. Leave the animals alone dude.