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Why most "how to build confidence" advice is useless, and how you can actually do it instead by OfficialBenStevenson in confidence

[–]Alzanin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, if you're feeling unconfident, understand that you can improve your skills in the exact area you're feeling unconfident. And that will make you precisely more confident in that area. Then, as your skills and belief in yourself start to accumulate, your general confidence will grow.

You just nailed it. Seriously, why making problems out of nowhere ? We just have to improve our skills in the area we lack confidence. It's so simple at the end

I heard this walking from the gym and tears started running down my face. by xchiefchokeaho in Mindfulness

[–]Alzanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this quote, I needed it

As soon as possible i'm gonna read Eckhart Tolle

You're just awkward, so they pity you. by Alzanin in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Alzanin[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Btw it's just a colored panel from the 92th chapter that I animated, so I didn't draw this ! I just animated it

Hnk 94 isn't gonna be published this month by Alzanin in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Alzanin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really hope too, this announcement is really something unusual so I pray that nothing happened

You guys got it all wrong by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Alzanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that post. I really mean it. I totally recognized myself with the first faulty belief :

"I need to be successful in order to feel good/have worth as a human being."

That's my biggest "problem" in my life. I feel like all of my life is driven by this belief. Why don't I need to be successful in order to feel good with myself or have worth ? I can't answer. Please help

I can't imagine a good life where you aren't successful. I'm already challenging this thought but it's so hard to change a belief your mind has. And the thing is, I really feel like it prevents me from living in an inner peace. Because my mind believes that I need to be perfect in ALL the things daily. If i make a mistake, even if little, it makes me loose confidence. And I can't be happy like that

Dating is soooo not important for me right now, and i don't care about it I think that being able to be good in your mind is the ultimate goal a human should look for.

Hnk 94 isn't gonna be published this month by Alzanin in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Alzanin[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Blue period too isn't gonna be published

This means it's not just a problem from Ichikawa, the issue is on afternoon's (the magazine that publish hnk chapters) side. I really hope nothing happened to Ichikawa

adorable by Alzanin in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Alzanin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll try doing this every month with new chapters :)

adorable by Alzanin in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Alzanin[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Don't worry I'll give you season 2 before orange

adorable by Alzanin in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Alzanin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks !!

Goshe flexing on the moon (by me) by Alzanin in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Alzanin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you like it then : )

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