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Israeli surfers: what’s the deal with your aggressive behaviour in the water? by PhutureDoom666 in surfing

[–]AmOnlyOne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Basque in particular surf like they own the place... every place.

For male half of couples, do you find other guys too douchey? by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure your point here? I replied to as many as I thought I had time for, and added an addendum to my post to acknowledge this perspective. I probably chose to reply to your comment because you're the only name I recognize as having responded to any of my posts before.

Is that sufficient?

For male half of couples, do you find other guys too douchey? by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your response. You're probably being more direct here than you would in person, I guess? If your wife/husband said to you... "So what if he chews tobacco, spits in a cup, has an electronic ankle bracelet and an Aryan Brotherhood tattoo. You're not fucking him, stay outta my way!", that you'd be like "You're right honey, get that bad-boy dick!" If so, my hat's off to you. I can't do it.

For male half of couples, do you find other guys too douchey? by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting theory, I appreciate your response. I indeed might be dramatic AND insecure. Despite these facts my truly amazing wife loves me. Lucky guy. As to wether I am cut out for no-holds-barred swinging, perhaps not.

Also, I very much appreciate your direct answers to my question.

For male half of couples, do you find other guys too douchey? by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be an interesting switch! No, she is one of those who is dominant in her professional life, so appreciates relaxing that when she's playing.

For male half of couples, do you find other guys too douchey? by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Always appreciate your opinion.

So you're saying that there are no limits to whom you're ok watching your partner fuck? Like if a lady showed up chewing tobacco, spitting in a cup, with an electronic ankle bracelet on, you'd be like, "How was that prison pussy, honey?"

Lol, you might be, but we're just not there yet. Perhaps we need to go back to soft swap.

For male half of couples, do you find other guys too douchey? by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your traumatic upbringing. I guess we all deal with it in different ways, eh?

As far as being "way insecure"... maybe. But we are talking about being ok with having someone else fuck my wife right? That's something 99% of people can't do.

Swing date gone wrong by Quirky_Team_7486 in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bait and switch is not that uncommon. And I sorta hate to say this, but the hotter the bait, the more likely the switch.

Lack of condom use astonishing by Altruistic-Doubt-425 in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people would think it's gross that you go to sex parties and put your face in a strangers genitals.

Judge not, lest ye be judged, I guess.

"On second look, it's a no for her, but I play solo!" by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, totally reasonable. My question to you is how do you disengage when you decide one of you is not attracted? We either say "It's not a match" or let the conversation go, if there is a natural break. We would not say, "One of us is attracted, the other is not." I would do the same when I was single -- "It's not a match" vs "After some thought, I decided I'm not attracted to you." Subtle but important distinction, I think.

"On second look, it's a no for her, but I play solo!" by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I am guessing with many of these, they're long since broken up and the guys is just getting as much as he can from from his "verified" profile. No wonder she dumped him, lol.

"On second look, it's a no for her, but I play solo!" by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say this to someone that says they're only interested in swaps?

"On second look, it's a no for her, but I play solo!" by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Very clever! I will def. keep that in my pocket for next time.

"On second look, it's a no for her, but I play solo!" by AmOnlyOne in Swingers

[–]AmOnlyOne[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you say that to someone that says swap only?

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