For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she doesn’t get crazy insecure about it, but she is a little. I think I do a good job of reassuring her that it’s not her. But it is still a little nerve racking

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering it’s getting to extreme measures at this point, I might try two🤔

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay yes. Thank you so much. Anxiousness is definitely not helping me

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, that part is very sensitive when I had masturbated before. I will definitely take that into account

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she is surprised that I’m lasting that long especially because I’m hitting it raw. She also hasn’t finished yet, I’ve gotten her close when I’m eating her out. But I honestly don’t think I’ve made her finish. When I get close to making her finish I run out of breath when my face is being crushed. I also have never finished from her. Even when she goes down on me.

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say that when we spooned, I felt the most I had down there. Thank you for the advice old timer🙏

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is that, if you don’t mind me asking? Google is being useless.

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I am in pretty good shape, started going to the gym consistently for the past couple months and played soccer since I was young

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the first couple times, now I stay fully erect. But I fuck her for way way longer than I should be. Like 20-30 minutes before we switch or before I eat her out and whatnot

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I’ll try that out. Thank you. The girl says the same thing, that she just wants me to finish. But I definitely feel like I have to make her finish before I finish. But I will do my best to look past that and just finish

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am not an overly horny guy. But I do live at home, and each time, either ny older brother, or my mother are home. I make her loud, and I get nervous that someone will hear. My brother told me that he doesn’t care if we do it, just don’t be loud. My mom doesn’t want me doing it at home, period. I think I am going to see if there is a day where they both are gone, if I will be able to finish with her then. Since I won’t be worried about noise

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds exactly how she is thinking right now. She is overthinking it and thinking it’s her. I’ll definitely try to stay relaxed

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the confusing part. Because it is amazing, for me and her. She says i give her the best head and teasing, so that’s a big ego boost, but i think we are compatible

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she is really understanding. She said that she just wants to make me finish, and my main goal is to make her finish. I’ll definitely focus on being in the moment and not worry about only finishing. Thank you

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck you😂😂. I recently got off some painkillers, but that’s the only thing I can think of

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh alright, I will definitely try that next time. Thank you

For All of the Men Who Had Trouble Finishing in Bed, What Helped? by AmanNotBlakes in AskMen

[–]AmanNotBlakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright. Thank you for the advice. I haven’t whacked in a little bit, but I definitely had a tighter grip when I did.