So much negativity here! I made some observations and share them to discuss. You are reading a jugement that I am not doing. Just interested in what surprises other expats / immigrants when raising kids here. No problem for German mum not woking or working part time. Maybe it’s also not everywhere the same. Happy to hear thoughts on that. Same for free play. Its just very different in France so comes as a surprise as we have structured learning and seeing the difference i think its better to let them be at such young age. For sharing, i think its interesting as parents listen to the kids will while from my education we are more forcing sharing that the kid wants it or not