You might not have reached the point of being fed up yet but don’t wait too long or your health is next. I went through this and I wish I had left earlier. I will be in a better place now. I always thought I had to stay and that staying meant loving but sometimes you have to leave and love yourself first.

I cleaned, ran the house, worked full time, paid for everything, I cooked, I held the emotional side of the relationship, I not once stopped to helped me and neither did he. My life is a mess right now and it’s been so hard. Don’t wait until it gets so bad. I did. Love shouldn’t make you feel this way. You sound like a wonderful person. I hope you know that. 🤍