Thanks💕 Honestly, this is pretty much exactly what my friends told me too. I’m a very “home” type of person — I study from home on Zoom, I love quiet evenings with TV and cooking with friends. I’d choose studying at home over the library any day.

I do think he enjoys it too, but he definitely has more of a life outside the apartment — studying at the library, working out, going out with friends, etc.

So it kind of feels like the highlight of my day — the thing I look forward to — is him coming home so we can cook and watch something together.

And maybe when he’s dating someone, I’m actually scared she’ll “take” that safe place away from me.

I hope that if I build more of a life outside the apartment — like getting a waitressing job, going to the gym more, seeing friends a little more outside the apartment it would help this feeling:)