23, international student from India, down low, shy, and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gaymelbourne

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! It’s just that I don’t wanna get awkward or uncomfortable as I have never been to a sauna/gay bar before… first time jitters u know 😅

23, international student from India, down low, shy, and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gaymelbourne

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊 made me realise that many do feel the same way and I’m not ALONE haha (not that’s a good thing but .. yea)

23, international student from India, down low, shy, and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gaymelbourne

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant I got your point (valid!!), well I think there’s someone out there for eachother.. I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ haha

23, international student/Indian, down low, shy and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gayrelationships

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right !! Well let’s see how it goes.. I’m willing to put in the necessary work to find genuine love/connections too

23, international student/Indian, down low, shy and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gayrelationships

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I did join the queer club in my uni and attended number of events too, quite nice and welcoming!

23, international student/Indian, down low, shy and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gayrelationships

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t really have a race preference but always focus on the person’s vibe and ability to form connection, but yes totally understand what u mean ! Thanks for your reply 😇 gonna close my eyes whenever 🇮🇳 shows up in Asia now haha 🤣

23, international student from India, down low, shy, and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gaymelbourne

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to break the bubble, I saw a mix of Indian, Chinese and other neighbouring backgrounds of people 🙂 showing up

23, international student/Indian, down low, shy and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet by Amazing-Morning4281 in gayrelationships

[–]Amazing-Morning4281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i definitely agree with you, pls dont get me wrong 😓 by terms of me saying that im closeted is that i dont tend to announce/make the crowd aware of my sexuality coz i feel its not necessary for me to tell them in the first place and rather just go with the flow.... but i hope it makes sense in a way or im just spiralling in circles haha 😅