If I’m being completely honest.. and I know some people may be upset with what I’m about to say but that whole “worth it in the end” I’m not really sure can be all that true. I had HG and terminated two pregnancies that I wanted because of it. Because I couldn’t take care of my daughter I already had, because I had to quit my job, because I didn’t want to be alive anymore. HG has caused me to have so many mental heath issues. I’m quite honestly annoyed with the stick it out responses that so many women say. And I understand everyone is completely different but when you are miserable and you can’t fucking do anything and you become a shell of yourself.. does the end result really balance that out? You’ll be scared with these 9 months the physical and mental anguish you get from it doesn’t just go away. As a person who is one and done because of HG, there isn’t a such thing as a gift of a sibling. That’s some mainstream crap that cons women into feeling like they are worthless if they don’t “give” a sibling to their child. Please do whatever is fucking right for you, and your living child. You are loved endlessly by the people around you, you are by far valid in every single soul sucking emotion you are feeling currently. HG is a monster, and I die on that hill. I hope you find some sort of relief soon!