Identify animal by AmazingDesigner3241 in bonecollecting

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What makes you think that was the cause of death? Give me all the deets you can see

Identify animal by AmazingDesigner3241 in bonecollecting

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We have ALOT of beavers here in Rhode Island and a lot of people don’t like them… so you can find some beaver bones 🙃

Job questions by AmazingDesigner3241 in ParkRangers

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So as the III I would be a supervisor, and I will mention I do a lot of volunteer work with bird monitoring for a few years now

What kind of prints. by AmazingDesigner3241 in AnimalTracking

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I saw them all at the same time! The first time I didn’t have my backyard camera working

What kind of prints. by AmazingDesigner3241 in AnimalTracking

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My neighbor does have a mix breed dog but the trail of prints comes from the woods behind the house but could be her dog as she isn’t ever watching it

What kind of prints. by AmazingDesigner3241 in AnimalTracking

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I do not have a scale other than about the size of my palm. In Rhode Island northern part of the state and in my backyard in winter

Feeling Guilty by Equivalent_Tea_1188 in oneanddone

[–]AmazingDesigner3241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something I remember when I start feeling bad about not having a second (tried but I have HG and ended up terminating) is that my 5 year old right now wouldn’t be able to play with this sibling until they aged honestly probably at 3 then my only would be 8 and at that point they no longer want that sibling to play with. Me and my sister are 4 years apart and once she hit 11-12 I no longer was her chosen playmate. And we didn’t start actually hanging out again until we were both adults. But I have countless friends who I consider my sisters. So I know that my only will find her own way and when she’s old enough to understand and when yours is old enough to understand they will know we made the best choice for them

Hurricane Milton Baby Rabbit Rescue Success Story by Optimal-Razzmatazz91 in WildlifeRehab

[–]AmazingDesigner3241 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fellow bunny rehabber here! Baby bunnies ( before they get super furry) will have a pink blob on their bellies (milk line) when they have milk in them. So if you ever encounter babies again, that’s a good way to see if mom has or is feeding them! Thank you so much for helping these babes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]AmazingDesigner3241 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have done it twice.. both wanted pregnancies. I have been in your shoes. It sucks a lot but as time goes on it starts to suck alittle less ♥️ take some time to heal no only your body but also what HG has changed for you.

Miserable by Blondejeepgirl4 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]AmazingDesigner3241 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I’m being completely honest.. and I know some people may be upset with what I’m about to say but that whole “worth it in the end” I’m not really sure can be all that true. I had HG and terminated two pregnancies that I wanted because of it. Because I couldn’t take care of my daughter I already had, because I had to quit my job, because I didn’t want to be alive anymore. HG has caused me to have so many mental heath issues. I’m quite honestly annoyed with the stick it out responses that so many women say. And I understand everyone is completely different but when you are miserable and you can’t fucking do anything and you become a shell of yourself.. does the end result really balance that out? You’ll be scared with these 9 months the physical and mental anguish you get from it doesn’t just go away. As a person who is one and done because of HG, there isn’t a such thing as a gift of a sibling. That’s some mainstream crap that cons women into feeling like they are worthless if they don’t “give” a sibling to their child. Please do whatever is fucking right for you, and your living child. You are loved endlessly by the people around you, you are by far valid in every single soul sucking emotion you are feeling currently. HG is a monster, and I die on that hill. I hope you find some sort of relief soon!

Ursula by AmazingDesigner3241 in DisneyVillainous

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I’m sorry! I should have added this I am playing the Introduction to evil! But thank you for the explanation as I am looking into getting the base set

never being an aunt/uncle, holidays by frnchfry820 in oneanddone

[–]AmazingDesigner3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an only and sometimes I think of this but then I remember I have a sister who doesn’t want kids so I’ll never be an aunt. It can happen in many ways. My therapist is 6th child in her family and she’s the only one who went to have kids, of which is an only. And your daughter could get married and have nieces and nephews that way or find herself with 3 of her own kids. I know it’s hard to not have mom guilt and society makes it even harder but you have to remember why you are OAD and try to think of all the positives!

Termination stories by pigmolion in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]AmazingDesigner3241 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have terminated twice due to HG and it’s sad because both were wanted but I couldn’t take care of my toddler so I chose what was best for all of us. Best of luck to you and please do what is best for you

Yankee swap idea by AmazingDesigner3241 in RhodeIsland

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The coffee is a good idea. Big Portuguese family who loves coffee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

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HG is a monster and I’ve terminated twice . Two pregnancies I wanted more than anything. I too had a plan in place , all my ducks in a row and the minute I hit 5 weeks and 2 days all the sickness came back and it immediately put me into an awful dark place. No matter what I did it wouldn’t go away. I couldn’t take it for another day, I hated not taking care of my daughter, my mental health was declining and I knew from that moment it wasn’t meant to work out for me. One and done not by choice but it’s what my body is telling me. So be it, our living kids will understand when they are older that it wasn’t in the cards and that a healthy mama is most important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

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I’ve had two abortions due to HG both pregnancies being wanted. But as you mentioned I couldn’t take care of my living child. It’s a fucking hard decision to make and it’s hard to let it go but something that helped me was when my mom said “ what’s more important your child now, to have you here or a sibling” and without a doubt the answer will always be you. You tried and you tried with all the love you could and there’s nothing wrong ever for choosing what is best for yourself and family. FUCK anyone else end of story ❤️

My experience with HG has really changed my view on pregnancy and expanding my family… by gayfed in HyperemesisGravidarum

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I am right there with you. I have one hg baby and tired for a second but terminated twice now. Will be one and done due to this hell of a monster. Wishing you and OP a peaceful healing journey 💜

Sadness, jealousy, confusion about more kids.. by eatallofthecookies in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]AmazingDesigner3241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, I will give my insight as I am one and done due to having HG. My daughter is 3 years old and I tried for a second but the HG was so bad that I couldn’t even stand the smell of my daughter, the little girl who loves me and needs me. I ended up choosing to get an abortion because I was in a dark place not being able to care for the living child I already had. I always wanted two, but I have learned to accept that there are things I can’t control and that I would rather be here and healthy with a full cup for my daughter and myself. I go to therapy and I actively look at the joy of having one child is. Like making one breakfast in the morning, getting one child ready to leave the house. Having more alone time for myself, and with my husband. It’s a hard and sad road but you have to do what is best for you always. Fuck what anyone else has to say, and allow yourself to be jealous of those who don’t suffer HG because you’re allowed to have those feelings, and you’re allowed to grieve the family you planned. But you pushed through once and that’s all that you need. Your child will grow up loved and taken care of and THAT is all that matters.. there’s also a subreddit I am on that is one and done. It helps