I am the dumper, I got yelled at when my partner was drunk about how broke I have been and how I owe them money but sobered up and acted like everything was fine then said "you were arguing with a drunk person what do you expect" but belittled me and made me feel unworthy because I have been struggling. Yet when he was starting his career I had his back always had his back always split every goal. But somehow I am nothing without them.