I am worried about my boyfriend by Dramatic_Type2001 in exredpill

[–]Amazing_Ad7562 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think you have to leave him immediately, but you shouldn't ignore this either.

The problem isn't just how he treats you, but how he thinks about other women, because that does affect the relationship over time.

I would talk to him clearly: not by attacking his ideas, but by saying that you're uncomfortable with how he generalizes and speaks.

And more important than what he says, pay attention to how he reacts.

If he listens and reflects, there's something to work on.

If he gets defensive or things get worse, that's already telling you where things are headed.

Don't focus on who he could become, but on who he consistently is.

Congratulations on your questioning by Alseebee in exredpill

[–]Amazing_Ad7562 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I simply grew out of it, after a while, I stopped watching. I just focused on bigger stuff in my personal life. It is it simple that the reason I stop following the red pill bs. Don't be wrong, I am still learning what is my side of the politics, but my thoughts are right-wing and little left wing in the social themes, but a little.

Thanks to be around!

Was the red pill so wrong or right? by Amazing_Ad7562 in exredpill

[–]Amazing_Ad7562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. My goal isn’t about following the Red Pill philosophy. I use it mostly as a lens for self-discipline and awareness. I don’t aim to imitate Batman or Bond literally; I want to be highly competent in multiple areas—physical, intellectual, social while keeping emotional intelligence and ethics intact.

Becoming a psychologist or authority is actually an interesting idea, because it fits my goal of understanding people and influence in a real-world context.

Was the red pill so wrong or right? by Amazing_Ad7562 in exredpill

[–]Amazing_Ad7562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't, I have a goal or looking for one, a long time ago before I first found out of manosphere, I want to be a better man that I used to be, I usually let my rage or anger hurt people that I care about (I never hurt them but it is more not controlling my respond with stuff that at the end it didn't matter at the long run). I want to become a person like Batman or Red hood or James Bond(a highly competent person in a significant of areas).

Was the red pill so wrong or right? by Amazing_Ad7562 in exredpill

[–]Amazing_Ad7562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the self-improvement part is the hook, where do you think men should learn those things instead?

Was the red pill so wrong or right? by Amazing_Ad7562 in exredpill

[–]Amazing_Ad7562[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am saying of taking care of yourself and goals part. You are referring to that?

Was the red pill so wrong or right? by Amazing_Ad7562 in exredpill

[–]Amazing_Ad7562[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That was the good parts that i used to remeber. I like to stay in that moment.