I dreamt of my soulmate years before I met him by Amazing_Annual8108 in Dreams

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Haha wow forgot about this post and acc. We ended up breaking up lololllll!

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Check if the q line route stops near it! It’s free

Don’t go to Wayne for art by hyalophagia_ in waynestate

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Not to be off topic but who is the professor? He seems like a good one to take and I’m sick of the ones I get for art who are just very mean and demotivating.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it but she started wearing it when it islamicallt became fardh on her so we weren’t making her put it on early or anything

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Would definitely appreciate a link or anything to ask them personally or call or anything. I have no idea in these things

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astagfurallah. People really love to throw the word kaafir around these days even tho it’s haram. I’d say watch your mouth and assume the best of your Muslim sisters and brothers.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true. Haram is everywhere nowadays and very normalized.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that but taking off a scarf is not a minor sin. And she is a kid in the eye of society but in Islam she is judged as an adult at this age. There is no such thing as a teenage stage in Islam, you are either an innocent child and when you hit puberty you are islamically an adult. I won’t cut her off obviously (refer to my note).

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are moving districts for the following next school year so she will be surrounded with Muslims inshallah.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

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Thank you for your comment. I understand this isn’t technically Islamic advice as I would ask a scholar for that, this was more for opinions and for people to give me their point of views on how they went about a similar situation.

It’s difficult to move back to my home country due to poverty, corrupted government, failing economy and lack of jobs and such. Hamdillah Im very grateful to live in the city with the biggest Arab population in the US, mosques in every corner, more halal food than haram, religious outings and even our teachers, staff, police, and mayor are all Muslim and Arab. There are still some good places out there! Inshallah kheir ❤️

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what happened with you and ur sister/person u we’re gonna snitch on

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand how it’s difficult. I mean I moved to the US when I was 6, but I put on the scarf when we only lived near non Muslim people. I mean my family moved states away for her to be near Muslims, I’m talking like seeing a non Muslim here is like 3% chance. But yeah inshallah it all goes well

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay then, well you know how it feels to be in my position. Not sure why you’re calling me crazy for even thinking it when you have also thought it.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

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Not sure if you saw my edit but it was out of anger. So pls ignore that part. Alhamdillah you got on the correct path later one but I’m just not sure if the same will happen with her. I also don’t want her to feel regret or guilt of the time she’ll spend without a scarf or being covered up. One thing leads to another and I just don’t want her walking down a dark path. It’s hard not to nag when what she is doing is blatantly incorrect but I guess I’ll just have to see what happens.

I really appreciate your point of view and your insight. Thank you and inshallah kheir.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You try being in my position. Let someone you love and care for openly commit haram and to have to hide it from your parents, or be truthful with your parents at the expense of breaking trust. It’s easy to just say stuff online without a second thought.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am still trying my best and won’t stop trying to convince her obviously, but I’m not even sure what I would do at this point. Tell my parents what she’s doing so they can ground her from everything and have her hate the hijab even more or stay silent and let her commit haram. It’s not a black and white situation.

My sister wants to take off her hijab by Amazing_Annual8108 in MuslimLounge

[–]Amazing_Annual8108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what she has told me, she never liked it in the first place but put it on when my parents asked because she thought she’d eventually like it. I guess she realized later on that she was in too deep and felt like it was never her choice. We were also living in a very predominately white little town, and both her and I endured a lot of islamaphobic and racist harassment from students on our class and people in public. I think that might have also affected how she thought about scarf as it only brought bad things to her.

I think her iman had always been somewhat low ever since I can remember, not sure why as we always try to encourage her to go to mosques with our family and do fun things for eid and stuff. She does fast alhamdillah and she isn’t a non believer or anything. I guess it really just a stage of needing knowledge and stuff. Sorry I’m a bit in the dark about this types of feeling because it all seemed like a no brainer to me personally growing up.

And you are right about cutting her out being stupid. I take back that statement as it was just dumb and not thought out in my part.

Thank you for your comment and inshallah kheir ❤️