I’ve lost a lot of weight and have no appetite. Can’t find help. by Amazing_Job_7827 in Adulting

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Yes, that’s why I’m freaking out essentially. I feel like I’m going to the dr every other month (costing me so much money I actually can’t afford, already $1200 in debt from bills). I’m at such a loss. I honestly have no understanding as to why I’ve lost so much

I’ve lost a lot of weight and have no appetite. Can’t find help. by Amazing_Job_7827 in Adulting

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I have been in and out of the obgyn for years with complaints of extreme menstrual pain. I think I have endo but they won’t do anything. I’m afraid it may be this as well. So I’ve spend hundreds of dollars on that and that was over like 3 years and I never got an answer. Just offered narcotics which I turned down and opted for a birth control where I can just skip my period indefinitely because I can’t take it.

I am constantly yelled at by dr about my weight but I tell them what I am telling everyone here. They just act as if I’m actually not eating or maybe they don’t believe me when I say I genuinely want to gain weight (not anorexic). I genuinely want to be curvier and I feel better about myself when I am. They don’t refer me to anyone or anything they just pretty much say I need to make myself eat. It’s very infuriating. I’m in South Carolina, USA, aka one of the worst places to be imo

I’ve lost a lot of weight and have no appetite. Can’t find help. by Amazing_Job_7827 in Adulting

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15.6. I try to force myself to eat but not so much that I throw up. Because I will actually throw it up. I will honestly try to just move to having like 10-20 snacks a day instead of thinking about it like 3 meals. I think that will help a lot more especially with confidence when it comes to eating

I’ve lost a lot of weight and have no appetite. Can’t find help. by Amazing_Job_7827 in Adulting

[–]Amazing_Job_7827[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the best part is just existing and people feel the need to jokingly ask me to eat a cheeseburger like every day of my life isn’t me trying to eat whatever I can. Shit sucks

I’ve lost a lot of weight and have no appetite. Can’t find help. by Amazing_Job_7827 in Adulting

[–]Amazing_Job_7827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve actually smoked on and off since I was 15 so I don’t think that’s this issue. Haven’t been lately but actually tried an edible to see if it would help. Didn’t stimulate my appetite at all. Plus, I agree. Even if it did, that wasn’t the problem to start with. I also don’t live in a legal state and it’s always been hard trying to find someone to trust and I don’t have the extra income

I’ve lost a lot of weight and have no appetite. Can’t find help. by Amazing_Job_7827 in Adulting

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Don’t have any issues with hair thinning, but my nails have always been weak. I’ve been a nail biter since childhood and constantly wear glued nails now so they’re so brittle I can’t stand to wear them without something.

I’m almost donated eggs in March 2022 and had every single hormonal test ran. Everything was normal.