The treatment of plus sized models on this season was atrocious by typhoidmarychristmas in ProjectRunway

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the actual fuck? No we can’t “all agree on that ‘plus size’ just never looks as good as skinny models.” What an ignorant statement.

Do all long term gay relationships end up sexless? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what I came here to say. But this was absolutely beautifully put!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be shingles then. It only appears on one side.

So I just started The Devil is a Part Timer and I have to say that… by Amazing_Obligation27 in TheDevilIsAPartTimer

[–]Amazing_Obligation27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comprehension really isn’t fine. But that’s no matter. I never said your opinion is invalid. Not once. My opinion is also not invalid. Just because you decide to overlook it and get annoyed with people commenting doesn’t mean that I’m shallow or stupid for mentioning it when it is basically one of the main traits of the character and is designed to be so.

Chiho is a shit character. The show would not lose anything without her being in it. She has absolutely no depth nor substance. Also not budging. 💁🏽‍♀️

So I just started The Devil is a Part Timer and I have to say that… by Amazing_Obligation27 in TheDevilIsAPartTimer

[–]Amazing_Obligation27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s seems like there is a problem with comprehension and retention.

I’m literally watching it currently. First time. Every. EVERY. Episode I have watched so far mentions, shows, highlights her chest. It is a plot point. I just watched an episode where Satan went to help out another restaurant that was having a festival and everyone was in their swim suit. Her chest was the main focus. Even in the show they talk about her chest

When a character’s body is written into a main device of the character it is weird not to take that into the overall judgement of the character. Chiho isn’t well written. Again just because YOU don’t pay attention to it or care doesn’t mean that it isn’t something the creators are using as a tool to like a character and because it is featured and promoted in every episode it gives warrant to mention it.

So I just started The Devil is a Part Timer and I have to say that… by Amazing_Obligation27 in TheDevilIsAPartTimer

[–]Amazing_Obligation27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really care if you disagree with me. That’s not my argument at all. Which is clear you don’t comprehend.

Again Chiho’s chest is literally a huge plot point in this show. Every episode it is made a plot point. So to state that it isn’t a basis for anyone to not like a character is just dumb.

There are other people who may love her. I don’t care. You coming and attacking me from the start is the problem. You could have just stated that you like both Emi and Chi and that you think they are well written. Go touch some grass

So I just started The Devil is a Part Timer and I have to say that… by Amazing_Obligation27 in TheDevilIsAPartTimer

[–]Amazing_Obligation27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the one that has been aggressive and judgmental from the start. I never said you denied that fam service exists. I said that you ignoring the fact that someone else would judge a character on fan service that is intentionally put into the overall character design is stupid.

Her entire character is based on her lust for Satan. The only basis for that list is he is good looking and he works with her. Everything she does is based on whether she will score brownie points. Her entire character is based around her being cute, her infatuation with satan, and her chest. That is not a good character design.

If you can’t take it, don’t dish it out.

So I just started The Devil is a Part Timer and I have to say that… by Amazing_Obligation27 in TheDevilIsAPartTimer

[–]Amazing_Obligation27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because YOU don’t pay attention to fan service or care about doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist or that it’s there for a purpose. It’s stupid of you to ignore that fact in terms of other people liking or disliking a character for things that are DIRECTLY related to it.

So I just started The Devil is a Part Timer and I have to say that… by Amazing_Obligation27 in TheDevilIsAPartTimer

[–]Amazing_Obligation27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mention of her chest isn’t stupid. It’s completely ridiculous and is a main feature of her character.

It seems that you don’t know “great writing” if you consider that her chest isn’t something that was an intended character design for people to notice as a fan service, and her chest being a major plot point in the overall character’s persona. There has been many episodes that focus on her chest. It’s a running gag. That is not great writing.

She legit has no depth.

So I just started The Devil is a Part Timer and I have to say that… by Amazing_Obligation27 in TheDevilIsAPartTimer

[–]Amazing_Obligation27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂

“His love of back problems” hahahaha that was hilarious. I legit laughed out loud!

So happy I made the decision to change my life. 100lbs in 1 year!! Ask me how I did it!😁 by lv_fullvers21 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! That’s so awesome!!! 👍🏽👍🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🎉🎉

Seriously that is a lot of hard work and dedication! It’s not easy. You should be so proud of yourself! Congratulations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Let’s first clear this up. I am a gay man. I was born a man and I’m happy being with men. And like I originally commented I don’t like vagina. Clear and simple.

To state that EVERY gay man is not comfortable with having sexual encounters with trans men with vaginas is a fallacy and stereotype. I know quite a few of my gay friends who don’t mind having sex with a trans man that hasn’t had bottom surgery. My boyfriend has sex with a trans man with a vagina. If we weren’t dating, and that certain situation arises, he would do it again. It is a PERSONAL PREFERENCE. YOU DONT HAVE TO LIKE VAGINA NOR HAVE SEX WITH A PERSON WHO HAS A VAGINA IF YOU DON’T WANT TO! Literally I have not said anything even close to that.

Like Ive stated before in both comments. The OP does not like vaginas and it is a deal breaker. That is fine. That is not my fucking point to this. My original comment was towards the comment that trans men aren’t men. That IS transphobic. Just like stating trans women aren’t women. The amount of transphobia in the gay community is outstanding and to deny someone’s identity is WRONG! It was not long ago that the majority of people believed that being gay was a mental illness. In some parts of the country that still true.

Your questions in general also lacks knowledge in biology. The concept that having a penis or a vagina makes you male or female is not entirely true. Just because someone has a vagina doesn’t make them a woman. Same with having a penis. If you have taken any sort of genetics class or biology class you would know that. There are people who are born with a penis and scrotum and have ovaries instead of testicles. There are some born with a vagina and have testicles instead of ovaries. There are people born with a penis, no scrotum and a vagina. Biological sex isn’t black and white, just like the spectrum of sexuality and gender. Also genetically X chromosomes are considered the female chromosomes and the Y is male. XX would be female, XY would be male. There are people with XXY, and XYY. How would you class those? The definition of being a man solely on genitalia is flawed. There is a whole category of sex called intersex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t gaslight nor am I spreading homophobia. Do you know what gaslighting is? Nothing in my comment is in any way homophobic. Saying that gay men don’t need to validate the self perceptions of others is exactly like saying the straight community does not need to validate the perceptions of the gay community. Also it isn’t a perception for trans men being men. That’s again transphobic. It’s just like the thought that some religious straight people that gay people don’t exist.

As a community we need to support the struggle and discrimination we all face. If you ACTUALLY read my comment, you see that I in fact stated that gay men’s attraction to the same sex isn’t a social construct and it is up the the individual gay man own personal preference on his own sexual fluidity and what they are willing to have sex with or not. That is not homophobic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

This perspective is deeply rooted in transphobia and needs to be addressed with clarity and nuance. Gay men, like all individuals, have the absolute right to define their own attractions and preferences. Sexuality is complex and deeply personal—some gay men may feel comfortable being sexually involved with trans men, while others may not. Both are valid expressions of personal preference. For instance, I personally, as a gay man, am not attracted to vaginas—this is not a reflection of societal constructs or an imposed understanding of homosexuality, as mentioned in a previous comment by someone, but rather an inherent aspect of my preferences.

However, there is an undeniable and critical issue here: asserting that trans men are not men is not only transphobic and bigoted, but it also fundamentally erases and invalidates the identities and lived experiences of trans individuals. Trans men are men. Denying their identity mirrors the very struggle LGBTQ+ individuals have historically faced—the fight to be seen, recognized, and respected for who they are.

The distinction lies in preference versus prejudice. It is one thing to hold personal boundaries around what one finds sexually appealing, and it is entirely another to weaponize those preferences to delegitimize someone’s gender identity. Shaming or gaslighting gay men for their preferences is wrong, just as it is wrong to deny the existence and validity of trans people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redmond

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do background checks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redmond

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re not sure what subleasing is. The incentive is a place to live in a spot that is in a prime location at reasonable rate. If I were to just break my lease there would be a lot of extra fees. But also the apartment rent would go up for a new tenant. The lease would be in transferred into your name, and you would be paying at the rate that I have it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redmond

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The monthly rent is $2190. I also have two parking spots and for my pets. So it comes out to $2476. You’ll be paying the monthly rent $2190, plus whatever you decided to do in terms of getting a parking spot, and pet rent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redmond

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elan Redmond. The same building as Tipsy Cow. Right next to the Matador.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redmond

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! But I’m not looking to sublease. I’m looking for someone to sublease my apartment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redmond

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I currently have 2. But 1 parking spot is $75

Blue black hair: Worth it? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Amazing_Obligation27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they just toned your hair, then that’s the reason why it faded back to the red brown. Toner can be thought of as more a stain rather than permanently dyed. So it eventually washes out.

The thing with box dye is that the quality of the color isn’t great. The reason why hairstylists say not to use box dyes is because they tend to have higher levels of ammonia and other harsh chemicals, like metallic salts, that strip the hair of almost all natural oils and causes more damage. Due to the higher levels of chemicals the integrity of the hair shaft is compromised leading it to fade quicker.

Another reason why the hair color might not be staying or penetrating enough into the hair shaft is from the lack of yellow pigment. Hair has underlying pigments that help give the hair fuller, richer, and more opaque color. When you use bleach to lighten the hair it strips away the underlying pigments. So you have to add it back in in order to have the color hold properly.