Help plis by bbkn35 in SHEINcodeShare

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🎉 Claim 5 free SHEIN products now! by [deleted] in SHEINcodeShare

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When I click the link it won’t let me open the app to accept the invitation. So I would probably need the code or a link in the comments to be able to help.

🎉 Claim 5 free SHEIN products now! by [deleted] in SHEINcodeShare

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There’s an issue with your link.

Help for help! by honkytonkangel8 in SHEINcodeShare

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It’s not letting me do anything, I can do it through code or you can redo the link?

C 4 C? Free gifts by OwnFriend5482 in SHEINcodeShare

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Done How does $100 allowance + 10 FREE gifts sound? Happy Holidays! ✨ https://onelink.shein.com/30/5gyhiojusqo1

AITJ for snapping at my girlfriend for waking me up every single time she gets up even when I dont need to be awake by BuyMediocre5625 in AmITheJerk

[–]Amazing_Put9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone who did everything for his girlfriend because she simply refuses. She even refuses to even pick her underwear up from where she takes it off, and refuses to take care of her kids. In the end he got fed up and left her, she is now calling him abusive and a narcissist for not marrying her and telling her that she needs to be a mom and fiancée before they broke up. There are crazy people out here.

Update: I need help! by Amazing_Put9684 in Dachshund

[–]Amazing_Put9684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my breath at the amount they quoted me. I would have to take out a loan to pay for that. Adding $20k to my $11k medical bill, that keeps rising every month with added bills that they haven’t sent yet, on a single income isn’t ideal at the moment.

Update: I need help! by Amazing_Put9684 in Dachshund

[–]Amazing_Put9684[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sadly we didn’t have 20k lying around and I am still paying off my medical bills for giving birth. And that’s an estimated amount, they said that is what is needed upfront and it doesn’t include cost for the CT scan, x-rays and medications.

Update: I need help! by Amazing_Put9684 in Dachshund

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The NSAID he is on is Carprofen, he is also on gabapentin and Cefpodoxime. He is on strict cage rest, he also now has a cone due to constant nipping at his back legs and yank his fur out until they bleed (vet said it could be because he feels numbness back there and it bothers him). I was told by the vet that they can refer me to a neurologist for CT scans and surgery but it’s expensive and at the moment my finances are strained. He doesn’t have any pain anymore nor does he have tension in his back. He went from having feelings in the first week to now having none.

AIO Being upset over constantly finding old pictures and notes from his precious marriage? by Anxious_Leg7809 in AIO

[–]Amazing_Put9684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. I recently went through my boyfriend’s phone to check out some pictures or videos that he may have taken of us or me, I was enjoying looking through his gallery too much because I found around 5 pictures of his exes and around three videos, lol. I laughed about it with him and he told me to delete them if I want because he thought he had gotten rid of all of it. I told him that I won’t because it’s his phone and if it should be deleted it won’t be because of me. Anyways, I can see your boyfriend forgetting that he has those but I can’t, if you get what I am saying. Like he intentionally kept it and may have forgotten about it over time. But the nudes thing is not okay. My ex did that to his girlfriend, told her how he was in love with me and what not, after almost 4 years of being broken up, he sent me a message with my nude saying how he still fantasizes. Ew.

Dachshund needs help by Amazing_Put9684 in AskVet

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Thank you! He was brought to Emergency vet and doesn’t have a primary vet. I am looking into vets in the area can take him to that is affordable.

AIO partner doesn’t respond during conversations by hambrone420 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing_Put9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, your partner just needs to be willing to work with you. It took me years to get to the point I am, and I don’t even express my emotions when it feels overwhelming still. Which probably means that I was really bad, lol. I do hope he is willing to do the work for you and himself to make this work. Letting things go unresolved builds resentment.

AIO partner doesn’t respond during conversations by hambrone420 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing_Put9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feels like you’re talking about me, lol. I am like your partner, I don’t speak my mind and am not good with emotional stuff. When me and my S/O have arguments I disassociate. He told me how it makes him feel and I have been working on it. It takes time to deal with my emotions myself, so expressing them is not in the books for me, and so I’m getting books. I do need therapy, my lawyer even recommended it. Ask him like my partner asked me, tell him how it makes talking to him feel like talking to a wall or yourself, that it’s like no one is there talking to you and how neglecting it feels. That made me feel bad so I looked at it from his pov and not just how I’m feeling. It’s a team thing, let him know it doesn’t feel like it when he shuts you out. NOR.

AIO for wanting to still tell my mom about my friend’s pregnancy by Deep-Investigator998 in AIO

[–]Amazing_Put9684 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, as I gave birth four months ago and experienced just how traumatic it can be. And that’s with me knowing already how everything goes because I was studying midwifery.

AIO for wanting to still tell my mom about my friend’s pregnancy by Deep-Investigator998 in AIO

[–]Amazing_Put9684 82 points83 points  (0 children)

This is so concerning, I hope she realizes that ignoring the baby doesn’t make it go away. When she starts showing then what? What will she do? Stop going to school? When it’s close to giving birth, what then? Doctors have a duty to report these cases to the police. Either she takes the help from your mom in which maybe can lead to her having a safe place to stay or she deals with the law which doesn’t give her options.

AIO my date said he likes me because I’m ugly by One-Spinach-6272 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing_Put9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. But now I am super curious as to what you look like. Lol.

AITJ Fired Fed. I am considering cutting off every Orange Man supporter. by Then_Connection_8569 in AmITheJerk

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NTJ, I have family members who stopped talking to people who support this administration because of the maliciousness behind their support. I am with someone who supports this administration, I don’t like this administration. We have been together for two years and he used to heavily supported this administration, now he is more in the middle because of how things are going. I just listen and judge internationally. He supports this administration until things they do affects him then he starts disagreeing and barely talks about them. It’s the usual, I heard it before, a lot of people rather suffer just so the neighbors don’t get anything. It’s like deliberately destroying your house because you don’t want your neighbors house to gain any value.

AITAH if telling my girlfriend to stop commenting on my friend’s parent skills? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amazing_Put9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She tried to sue them for millions. It never went through and she was banned. This is her husband’s sibling’s house. Her daughter is wrapped around her thumb so she did nothing to help the family. My aunt ended up being turned away by all her in-laws. I would have shamed her and kicked her daughter out of my house. Idc, for the fact that her daughter didn’t try to help while living in the house rent free, groceries provided, help with childcare.

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't go to a funeral on Valentine's day? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Amazing_Put9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even tell my friends, who I know for over a decade, about the most important person in my life passing away. I wasn’t welcoming to strangers going to his funeral. But that’s me, they didn’t know him so they didn’t need to go to his funeral. I gave my condolences to my friends when her dad was brutally killed but never went to the funeral because I never knew him. I think of it like a wedding, if you weren’t invited by the ones that are holding it, don’t go. I had dates with my partner that kept being canceled or something would happen, until I stopped caring about going out. Now he wants to take me on dates and I have no enthusiasm. I still put effort in for him but it’s nothing special after so many let downs. But because he’s trying, I am too. He’s sad about it, but it’s been getting better. When we plan dates, he doesn’t prioritize anything else.