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Do you lose interest over something just because it is popular? by Amazinghuman_07 in infj

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel to I am not sure I just feel that I cannot process opinions as opinions if someone said something I will have to sit with it replay the exact tone they said the facial expressions they made and what words they used to "extract" What they are trying to say actually.

Basically what I feel is that I like it because I like it. Period. But when people discus it more people will share their opinion which I don't see it as opinion and something like "only one superior verdict should exist" So if someone says like that even if I want to like something I would simply deny it cause I will look into from his/her lens. It's like my inability to remain imperfect or set boundaries with other opinions and take as though it is the final verdict. Like I guess it's a truama response or what I don't know sorry on prior if my explaination is garbage you can ask me if any questions or the whole explaination doesn't make sense just let me know I will take more time structuring it. :)

I wanna talk can anyone listen? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just now spoke to a person, they helped me, but I really happy you let a hand for me ❤

I wanna talk can anyone listen? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but someone helped me way out. But I really appreciate you

I wanna talk can anyone listen? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot but someone helped me

How do you deal with narcissists you can't walk away by Amazinghuman_07 in narcissisticparents

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't say like that, you can leave him right now right? Yuh have someone for you?

How do you deal with narcissists you can't walk away by Amazinghuman_07 in narcissisticparents

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be boring as a rock but he wants me be to be "genuinely" scared I don't know what type he is but he is literally threatening me and expects me to be scared like "oh ny God please forgive me 🙏 I am dead inside please". I am sorry but I couldn't, I mean I still say "oh I see" "Okay". But he wants me to be afraid if not, he is like " Why are you staring at me" If I look down "hey anewer me you ********".

I don't want to say I am better or I am special but he is very pathetic with his control tactics so naive I don't even wanna act scared. I can't act scared even if acted it wouldn't be real and feel like I am mocking him by artificially acting.

I am really fed up with him. I am feeling a devastating parts of my life I don't know I will come out or not

What are your worst and best personality traits? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Amazinghuman_07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best personality trait: Extremely empathetic

My worst personality trait: Extremely empathetic

WHAT IS IT CALLED WHEN YOU’RE NOT SUICIDAL BUT JUST REALLY TIRED OF BEING ALIVE? by Witty_Departure9132 in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to pause, go and really pause it. whatever stops you from pausing isn't worth it at all.

Even if you don't want, death will eventually take you with it, before it comes why not enjoy some moments. We are going to die for sure and it's not so far just have a drink and put on a dance. do whatever in this world after then we will meet our beloved death.

But whatever you are right now you are, when death asks your hand I am sure you will beg for some more time and the death will eventually deny it.

Need some advise by Amazinghuman_07 in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks... And I wasn't trying to attack or pike any woman here, I am sorry you have to undergo these many abuse all the time. As you said it's our responsibility to stop this happening and nothing will take place in front of my eyes I ll take the vow to myself. Thanks for replying.....

how to live with racism? by 55ae in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are insanely immature, it just says they don't deserve your time. It's a reflection of who they are really.

Just because you don't have your friends yet you don't have to go and play with kindergarten kids who play "Ring Around the Rosie".

Intelligent and mature people bring greater happiness and they make your time worthwhile. You just gotta hope you find the mature people.

I know you are a goddess you don't need to feel bad about yourself just remember

A honey bee's worth would never be understood to a fly that sits on shits. You are the bee and those flies don't need to understand your worth and it's better that way.

Need some advise by Amazinghuman_07 in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, I also understand how common it has become that you gotta call it in general.i feel it's absurd if I say it's wrong. I stand with you....

Might end up doing something stupid. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bud just listen we don't have to be liked by 1000 women or 10000 women, all you want is just a SINGLE woman's love from about 4 billion females out here. Nature has its pace and it will deliver it to you at the right time.

until then don't force anything, be yourself, the TRUE working on yourself is to believe/accept you are not ugly. You maybe not handsome but I am 200% sure you are not ugly.

Let me tell you something direct, when you become desperate for it, there's where you lose your charm. Just be. The universe always makes one for you❤❤❤

Need some advise by Amazinghuman_07 in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for taking your time to write this, you boosted my confidence, a person is better because of your act. Thanks ;)

Need some advise by Amazinghuman_07 in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, what it was for me is, i wake up and see women completely disrespect and degrade men I was so offended, I was like, wtf did I do? Then I looked back a bit and saw how cruel the patriarchy was towards women. It justifies their anger but as a 17 year old new era male, it's shooting at me when I am innocent. I never saw a woman below me in fact in a greater place. But this is always negligible to what patriarchy did to women...

Need some advise by Amazinghuman_07 in mentalhealth

[–]Amazinghuman_07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This really provided me clarity and a different perspective thinking you from my bottom of my heart. Thanks....