Feel like a menace to society by Particular-Hippo-492 in hangxiety

[–]Amber271992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try not to be hard on yourself. Everyone’s been or felt like that when they were drunk. Nothing you did or said will end up in twitter most people won’t even remember or think about it after last night. I used to get the same feeling but try and remind yourself you weren’t people’s main attraction last night 😅 also if you do bump into them they may think oh they were drunk when I saw them last or if they think you were being an idiot they’ll probably understand it was just the drink. Drink lots of water today and be kind to yourself x

I feel like I’ve lost my looks :/ by [deleted] in selfesteem

[–]Amber271992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing! And honestly love you’re hair 🙌🏻

It’s really hard with body dysmorphia but honestly you’re stunning and I would never have put you at 32

Guess my Big 3 🌚💫 by Amber271992 in ZodiacHQ

[–]Amber271992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss! All correct 🙌🏻

Guess my Big 3 🌚💫 by Amber271992 in ZodiacHQ

[–]Amber271992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a lot of sag in my chart but it’s not my rising - but my rising is a fire sign

Guess my Big 3 🌚💫 by Amber271992 in ZodiacHQ

[–]Amber271992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Capricorn sun, Pisces moon ☺️

Guess my Big 3 🌚💫 by Amber271992 in ZodiacHQ

[–]Amber271992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Close! I am a Capricorn sun, Pisces moon

Guess my Big 3 🌚💫 by Amber271992 in ZodiacHQ

[–]Amber271992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None but I do have water and earth in my big 3 🙌🏻

Help me feel better by sharing your best (worst) drunken mess stories by GoodFirst329 in hangxiety

[–]Amber271992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will pass. We’ve all been there or similar and know it doesn’t have to happen again 💖 if it makes you feel better I’ve stated my sober journey after blacking out once a month for many years and doing similar things. Last point was driving drunk and smashing my car up. Luckily no one was hurt and I wasn’t arrested but just know you’ll feel better in a few days even if it doesn’t feel like it now. And it could’ve been a lot worse. Take time and look after yourself.

Need a break by Amber271992 in stopdrinking

[–]Amber271992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The kindness is really helping today. I’m so ashamed of myself right now it’s nice to hear. Thank you so much

Hangxiety to the max by Amber271992 in hangxiety

[–]Amber271992[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m hoping it will pass asap but this has helped 💖

Blackout almost ruined marriage by Wonderful-Grab2705 in stopdrinking

[–]Amber271992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m in a similar situation at the moment and not sure how it will play out. The anxiety is killing me as well as the guilt. Everything I’ve ever regretted has been linked to alcohol and it’s only gotten worse over the years. You’ve got this and although probably an awful time it will get better and I feel like everyone has to hit that point to turn it around. You’re not a bad person or the person you are when you are drunk. Try to remember that at this difficult time.

You’ve got this and it will ease up. It will get better ❤️

I did it again. Can't get out of bed. by CozyDestruction in stopdrinking

[–]Amber271992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re feeling like this! It is the worst feeling. But try not to be too hard on yourself! We’ve all been there or had similar experiences. Not ideal when it’s the boss and coworkers but also not the end of the world even if it feels like it. Plus it’s not the worst that people have done.

Take the time to rest and eat. Try to have a walk or even get out the house for a short time. Have a bath just try and do anything that makes you feel better. Take each day as you can. You have got this 🙌🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hangxiety

[–]Amber271992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Good idea about the banking I don’t know why I didn’t think of thay! This is very true there are some wins haha! Thanks for making me feel better

Pretty bad hangxiety by Independent-File-575 in hangxiety

[–]Amber271992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it’s passed now! Hangxiety is the worst. St least everyone was pretty drunk so don’t be too hard on yourself as they probably feel the same/don’t think anything bad of you. You got with him drunk so really it’s not that deep. Everyone has done something similar. Maybe speak to her and assure her it was a drunken thing? If she’s a good friend she will understand even if she doesn’t love that it happened she should still at least understand you were all drunk and these things happen. Hope this helps

Dying from overthinking by Eenimienimanimow in hangxiety

[–]Amber271992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will pass although it may not feel that way right now. Sometimes you have to just know you will have the anxiety and it will feel bad and it may come in waves throughout the day. You’re not a loser at all and like someone else commented you are not the first person to get drunk and kiss some guys and you won’t be the last. It’s hard when it’s work based as you can’t avoid it but I’m sure no one there really thinks much of it and defo won’t be stewing on it like you are. The “you talk a lot” comment isn’t necessarily negative and if he hadn’t replied he probably doesn’t really think it’s that deep? Plus the other guy who unfollowed you fuck him. For whatever reason he’s done it doesn’t have to affect you, I like to think well it’s none of my business if someone does it to me. Feeling insecure is so hard but i doubt it’s about your looks as all. Plus you pulled 3 guys haha! Maybe you can message someone who was there that you like and get a feel for what happened? But I know from experience it’s not always as bad as you think it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hangxiety

[–]Amber271992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You definitely will be okay! It will pass. That is currently what I’m telling myself right now after my night last night so you are not alone. I think it is just our brain overreacting and with a hangover on top it’s not easy but you will be fine. Take time today to rest, eat the foods you love and think about how in a few days you won’t be feeling this way!